Why is it all about him in bed?

He'll never know unless you really tell him. You can be nice about it, but you need to tell him.
Tell him at a time when it's just a regular part of the day, not in bed. ( And not at school. )

My girlfriend said that she has never had any body treat her like I do. I start out kissing her then I start licking her from top to bottom and then go back to the middle and put out the fire with my tongue. I think he needs to grow up or like the other girl said find a real lover

Well please don't think you are the only woman dealing with this. Most men have to be taught to share. Say something like Oh! Baby touch me there or Wow! I really like it when you do that. When he sees how wild it drives you and of course he benefits as well, he'll give you more of it. Good Luck

DO come right out and say it. He should want to please you. Don't get yourself stuck in a relationship where your guy isn't willing to do things you like in bed. It's selfish of him to always make it be about himself. Maybe he doesn't realize that you have unfulfilled needs, and if you tell him that it bothers you, he'll willingly oblige. If he doesn't, though, and continues to expect you to take care of his needs without him taking care of yours, I suggest you get out and find someone who IS willing to do the things you like.