We're not having sex yet because I'm not ready, but he's had tons of sex before and is just waiting for the day when I want to. We do everything else, but its getting boring NOT because we're not having sex, but because he won't be exciting about the other things. I thought that being that he'd rather have sex, he would want other things to be more exciting, but so far no luck. We do the same thing, we have a routine, he's so worried about what other people think, he doesn't' even like when I try to do stuff to him anywhere else from where we normally do (like a parking lot, hallway, etc). How do I get him to be a bit more exciting and switch up our routine? My last guy was totally not like this, and was up for anything. I don't know how to get him to do this! I'm never fully satisfied at the end of the day because its kind of stale, but I don't wanna make him feel bad.
hi i think you should have sex with this guy on your own term. ( never feel pressured). the reason he is giving you a hard time is because he is used to (easy women). i also read that you do other sexual things with him ( red flag). don't do anything sexual with him if you are not ready to go all the way. a woman is just being a tease when she does this. it makes her look like she is playing games and the man respects her less. ( remember yourself always comes first)
You say that he's afraid of what other people think, maybe you trying to switch things up kind of scares him cause he's afraid you'll get caught or get interrupted and then he won't be able to enjoy it. He might just be a lot more paranoid than you are about doing it in different places. Also if you want to give things that little bit of change, try dressing up or role play before you guys you know do stuff. That way you both get to have something a little different in a place that you both know, but you've tried something new without having sex.
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