Was it stupid to tell my ex we could hook up again?

My friend's sister did it, and she regretted it.
Just because the ex boyfriend might conveniently be around doesn't mean it's a good idea . And, untimely drinking of alcohol can cause these things to happen . Be more careful . ;-)

It sounds to me like the wine was doing the talking. I think you would regret it in the morning. Sounds like you still have some deep feelings. Don't let the alcohol make you do something you wouldn't do if you were sober. You aren't stupid, you were just a little tipsy. I know a lot of guys and girls who have ended up sleeping with an ex under these conditions. It's a great way to end up pregnant or with an STD.

All you can say is you were drunk, and didn't know what you were doing. This is a good lesson for you; always stay in control.

Coming flat out and asking him to have sex with you isn't something I would do, mostly because it allows him to analyze the proposal. I would much rather hang out with him, laugh and tease, and if I want sex, I usually bring up the past great sex times with him - and ex-sex is usually a result.

I have asked my ex for sex, felt like a big dumb ass, when he was like, "no we broke up for a reason" So I was just like, "omg, that was just a joke. man you take everything too seriously" I tried to play it off, but I know he knows I wasn't kidding. But I am so glad that I didn't because I am so freaking over him!!