How do I kiss my girlfriend?

A kiss tells all. When you have strong emotions for someone, like it sounds like you have ,it comes naturally. Be gentle, patient, caring and slow. Pull her close to you. Look in her eyes and study her face. Lean in and when your lips touch her mouth and you know there in the right position. Close your eyes and let your lips feel hers. Give smooches at first but still be gentle. Then if you want to you can start opening your lips (not really wide) but enough for your tongue to be able to get involved in the action. It's a domino effect one person initiates and the other reciprocates(sender/receiver) When she feels your tongue she'll give you her tongue and just play around with it gently. It's just like a BJ you wouldn't want a girl to be rough or use teeth. Just keep that in mind.

First kisses are so amazing! So I can understand your nervousness :)

Here's my advice.
Stand and hold her in your arms in a hug like position but with one of your hands at her waist. Lick your lips - If she isn't looking up at you, use your other hand to tip her chin up to you, and look into her eyes.

Now, close your eyes, and lean your head down, lips slightly open. Run your tongue softly between her lips, just so she opens her mouth a bit, you want to taste her, but not swallow her. Then pull your tongue back, open your lips slightly and softly suck her bottom lip for a brief second, pull back and smile back into her eyes.

When you're down, run right back here and tell us all what it was like!

Okay. When you kiss, it's gotta be the perfect combination of tongue, lips, saliva, and suction action going on and that takes PRACTICE!

So. Here's what I suggest you do. Go grab an ice pop ASAP. Now don't bite it, unless she asks (LOL), but just lick and suck it a bit. On the sides. You need to use your lips to suck away the juices and use your tongue to make sure nothing drips on you (ummm. On a side note to readers, I'm completely straight and I'm trying to help this guy learn to kiss. Not. OH GET YOUR MIND OUT OF THE GUTTER! ). But you need to do this all over the ice pop and multiple times so it melts.

The icepop works for many reasons. It will force you to suck the flavor using your lips at the right suction so as to not break the icepop, use your tongue to lick up the melting juice but not so hard that you break the icepop, it keeps your teeth back so they don't get cold (unless you're a freak with desensitized teeth), plus it allows you to use the right amount of saliva so you're not drowning the thing in your own spit.

So now that you have the technique or at least an idea of the technique, I am going to let you in on a secret.
The MOST IMPORTANT THING about kissing. Is compatibility.

It's your first kiss and the girl will be able to tell RIGHT AWAY if you two are compatible or not.
You need to go in with your mouth slightly open with TEETH AND TONGUE back.
Don't touch lip to lip but INSTEAD do this.
Lick your lips very discretely so they're moist.
When you go in, your bottom lip lands just above her bottom lip
Your top lip goes just above her top lip.
Then you just wait for HER to make the first move.
When she moves her lips, move as they do. Mimic her movements using the technique above. Don't be afraid if she sticks her tongue in your mouth, just make sure to massage her tongue with yours (that's a french kiss).

Continue the basic technique above and make sure to follow her lead (unless she lets you lead). At which point you have my permission to play but take note of the do's and don'ts.

******DON'T******
Suck super hard
Jam your tongue down her throat
Draw blood while bitting
Drown her in your saliva
Bring your teeth forward (this will cause them to clash and that is NOT pleasant)
Cough (just not cool)
Sneeze (disgusting)
NOT brush your teeth (also. NOT COOL)
Keep your eyes open
Stay in one spot
Do nothing (gotta keep it interesting)
Press hard

******DO******
Brush your teeth
Smile while kissing (if you like it, smile. She can tell)
Nibble ever so slightly on her lips
Suck softly on her BOTTOM lip. Once you get the hang of it, move to top lip
Lick HER lips with YOUR tongue
Open your eyes once to see if hers are open. (if they are, it's a sign that she might not be enjoying it and thinking of something else).
Tilt your head
Make that smacking sound (not so much. )
Press gently

Good luck skippy. And let me know how it goes!