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Women, do you make love in the light, dim light, or the dark?

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cardioman65 (Age:36 to 45)     When: 8 months ago
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I guess I can see from the romantic side, to have sex in the dark, but guys have to see the woman! I do not like the dark, but will tolerate the dim lights, but why the dark? I believe that some of my ex girlfriends had the lights off because of being self conscious of their body flaws, such as small breasts stretch marks big belly... Is this true or are there other reasons? Guys, what do you prefer?

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grace86 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Any! If it's with the right person then my insecurities seem to melt away, especially if they make you feel they want you right then and there. It is true though that lots of women prefer sex in the dark due to flaws but with age you realise who cares?!

It depends on the situation, if it's the middle of the night then dark, if it's before bedtime then dim light and if it's any other time light all the way.

I like to be able to see the body of the person I'm with and soak up every part of them.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Dim light. It makes beautiful shadows on body parts and heightens sensations.
i think most girls turn out the lights because that is how it's always portrayed in movies on TV everywhere, so they turn out the lights.
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Sweetiesweet (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Yes that is true. Girls can be very self conscious. I use to be like that. I am not anymore but I still don't like bright lights. I like dim lighting therefore you can look into the persons eyes. That's always hot. But totally darkness is hot also because you cannot see. You can only FEEL and they say when one "sense" is taken away the other "senses" become stronger. So yeah.
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
I personally like the dark for the exact reasons you expressed. My guy however, always turns the light on. Want to hear something else. I only way around 145lbs. and I always wear at least a top during sex. Women are horribly self conscious of their bodies.
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Question Asker Well think of it this way: men are not perfect! I get self conscious too! And if A guy gets that way, well he won't be able to preform. - 8 months ago
Answerer I agree and then sex is not fun anymore. - 8 months ago

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tammymac (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
Candle light is the best, it's romantic and it provides enough light that you can see what you are doing and the expression on each other's faces without the glare of full light. Besides that candles can provide a nice sent in the air too which is also romantic.

If you take your woman to your room and say just a minute honey and light a candle she's going to think awww how sweet and mean while you'll be thinking awww how cool you get to see what your working on lol. She'll think romantic you'll think sexy how can you loose.
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CCgirl72 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Yea for the most part it's usually that a girl is just really self conscious about her body and to enjoy sex more she'll usually want the lights off so that she doesn't have to worry about what she looks like. Also men are much more visual than women we like to have all the sensation of sex, while men love to see and hear things about sex, I mean of course feel things as well but it's just much more for each side
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Question Asker That is true! Guys are very visual which is why I want the lights on! lol - 8 months ago

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Kaleina (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
I'm fine either way, on or off, day or night.

It's really going to be up to the woman and their confidence level about their bodies.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
I'll do stuff with the lights on cause I know my boy likes to/doesn't care to leave the action to turn the lights off. But personally, sometimes I like to have the lights off sometimes. It seems like we're in a porno and everything is on fab display when the lights are on. I include imperfections and self consciousness too, but also just in general. It's not hot to feel like there's all this attention on getting a great view of parts when its about the feeling. Its just more sensual and I enjoy it more sexually in dim or dark light. It's also exciting when its so dark you can't see each other at all cos I never know waht he's about to do to me!
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Question Asker I do not mind dim light, but dark is hard for a guy. He wants to see the woman. My ex was concerned about her boobs being small and I told her, it does not matter, I just wanted to see her in the light. - 8 months ago
 

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ionlife (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
Doesn't it depend on the location? If you decide to slip away into a dark corner during a cocktail party then you won't turn on the lights. Or if you decide that you've got to have her in an elevator, it is kinda hard to turn off the lights.
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