Ok I've been talking to this one guy I really like. We go out and stuff and he gives me the impression that he wants to have sex with me. Do you think I'll look too much of a slut if I go for it?
Do you mean, look like a slut to HIM? Or look like one to OTHERS? You don't need to worry what others think, because you are not telling them about it. And you can tell him that you would like for him not to tell others, also. If you really want him, and if you know he really likes you, then you can go for it. Just be safe.
I think you should have sex with him because otherwise you're just wasting his time. You like him, he likes you and you both blatantly want to have sex with each other. Do it before he does someone else!
I wouldn't go for it yet. If you make him wait then you'll find out if he genuinely wants to be with you or not. Make sure you are officially dating him for a comfortable amount of time, you will know all the answers that way. Guys won't go out with someone and wait a month or two if they only want sex!
I'm going to have to say that you shouldn't have sex with him. When I was in the Eighth Grade, there was a girl who had sex with a guy in the first month that they knew each other, it completely ruined her popularity and I had to stop talking to her because she became very bitter after the news made its way around school. I can't tell you what you are going to do, but I hope you make the right decision for yourself.
Any guy that age wants to have sex. In fact they will have sex with almost anybody that is willing. So don't think you are special to him because he is nice to you and because he wants to sleep with you. He will tell you ANYTHING if he thinks it will get you to sleep with him! Are you a virgin? Even if you aren't , sex is not meant to be casual. You do not have to sleep with every guy you "like" just to keep their attention. If he doesn't want to hang out with you anymore because you won't have sex with him then he isn't worth your time anyway. Have respect for yourself. Make him earn that part of you. Because whether you believe it or not, every time you have sex with someone you give them a little piece of yourself that you will never get back. Don't give that away so easily.
Ultimately it is your decision. Just really think about it before you decide anything! Good luck.
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