The Big Daddy of Questions: Performance Matter or Size?

Performance I believe is more important. Also foreplay and learning what the girl likes. Everyone is different so you got to start from scratch when you meet someone new.

PERFORMANCE! PERFORMANCE! PERFORMANCE!

Not that I am a successful playboy, but some of my best sexual partners were women who had small boobs and very thin or voluptuous bodies. Nothing like 3 to 5 hours or of nonstop lovemaking! Sure, us men want the athletically stacked women but in truth, who cares! I have found that what many women lack in big boobs, they make up for it one way or the other.

Men? WE all want one that's 11" long and wide as a horse. I've been told that I am big at just over 8" but look at some swingers sites and will find women asking for even bigger! Therefore, I don't know if I really am big or women are just being polite.

But for me: performance. I am too old and mature to care about a woman's bra size :D

I'm sure both matter. I'm supposedly about average size wise, and I think nearly every guy wishes he was bigger at some point, but I've never had complaints. From what I can tell, actual penetration sex is only a part of the big picture. If you do everything else well, and have good technique and pay attention to the woman all the way through, you could get by with not being large.
That being said, I'm sure there is something about the feeling of really being stretched by a big one that you just can't get any other way.

I'm a little under average at 5" and a little thin too when fully hard and for me its very exciting for a woman to tease and taunt me about my size being smaller. I accept the fact that women can truly have better sex with a bigger endowed man.

Performance can do all the good work in the intercourse, is the simple fact, that they are positions in bed even if a men have a "little daddy" can satisfy a women and she can get an orgasm or a couple of them.

Performance is more important. Its great when a guy has gotten to know everything that turns you on and delivers it all in the bedroom. My boyfriend toys with me for hours and keeps me teetering on the verge of orgasm until I'm screaming at him to take me over the edge. Phew. Size? For me GIRTH is far more important than LENGTH. A thick chunky cock gives me that really full feeling and can hit all the parts that longer, thinner cocks miss.

One of the best lovers I've ever had was no bigger then 6 inches, but he could rock my world. So I would rather have a guy that had technique over size, although there is such a thing as too small but then that also depends on the size of the girl too. And to the girl who said she did not believe a guy with a BIG one could suck at sex, trust me honey the big one's can suck too. Which can be even worse, because you have this expectation that its going to be great. Sometimes they just try to get by on size alone and never really learn how to please their partners, because when it comes right down to it that's what it's all about pleasing each other right?

I think performance is better. I mean, the guy could be small or big. And still suck at sex. But if he's good and knows what he's doing. Size doesn't matter.

I say performance. I was pretty promiscuous at one point in my life so I have been with quite a few men and will say that size really didn't make a huge (no pun intended. Haha) difference. In fact, there was one guy that all the guys were jealous of because he was pretty big. (11 inches) but I wasn't that impressed with him in bed. I think it is what you do with it, not how big it is that matters. :)

I am a HUGE (no pun intended) fan of big. Size matters to me. However, if there is no motion in the ocean I guess it wouldn't really matter.

To me honestly performance - ok so maybe I want him to be at least a seven but performance is what makes it more exciting!

I am into size honestly. People say performance is best but I am a sucker for size. But if a guy isn't big he better be good at oral.