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Is it weird that I am still bleeding after sex?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 5 months ago
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okay so i have had sex with my boyfriend, yes the first time i did bleed but just a little bit and it hurt like a bitch! but then this is the third time we've "done it" and i bled this time too. but i didn't the second.? and i bled this time more than i did the first time. I'm so confused and scared. has this happened to anyone else? why did it happen? help! =[

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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
If you were a virgin, and never had sex, bleeding is definitely normal.

After the first time you had it, the question would be, how many days after the first act did you wait for the 2nd and third time? Depending on this, and also, depending on how far you went after the first time, bleeding could be normal, and these are reasons why: The first time you had sex, it was most likely painful, and you didn't relax fully; thus, your partner's penis, didn't fully penetrate. It could also well be that the 2nd time, you were still sore, so you might have gone slowly at it. By the third time, you were not as sore, and maybe your boyfriend went deeper or he rhythmically moved harder, which could have further "broken you in. "

Also, how many days after the 2nd time did you have sex?
Every girl is different, and I used to work in the ER, and we got these bleeding cases a couple of times or so. We have seen couples that came in cause the woman was still bleeding a month after, but tests turned out to be normal, and it had to do with the frequency of the sex (had sex the first time, and she was so sore that she waited a week or more for the 2nd time, which by then she was still sore so the penetration wasn't as full, etc), and how relaxed she was when all this happened, how lubricated she was, etc.

Many girls are very anxious about the first time, so they don't get as wet, and could make it more painful for the woman.

The only times you would be concerned for bleeding, if its you're having severe abdominal pains, and the bleeding continues well after you have had sex. So let's say you had sex at 9pm, and by the next evening you're still bleeding somewhat profusely, and by that I mean that is not stopping. Many times this happens because you could have endometrities or uterine polyps, or fibroid tumors, but again, the bleeding that happens is a bit more profuse than the bleeding that happens after sex for the first time.
Also, the question is, the last time you bled, was it just after the sex, or did the bleeding continue the next day, and it wouldn't stop?
If the bleeding happened after the sex, and then you had a some small amount the next day, or spotting as they call it, and the it stopped, this is still normal. Hope that helps some.
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Question Asker Most Definitely. The Best And Most Helpful Answer. Thanks So Very Much! Lol I know my Boyfriend Thinks So Too. - 5 months ago
 

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Marie099 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Well, if you were a virgin don't be scared. Having sex hurts lots of girls, not just you. Bleeding is also normal. Try using KY and relaxing. Going slower will help you relax so it doesn't hurt as much. If the bleeding continues, you should go talk to your doctor to make sure nothing is wrong.
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AshleyL (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
I think you're fine. If this is only the third time you've had sex, your body is still adjusting to it. It's a foreign object (as funny as that sounds) so of course your body is going to have to get used to it. Hell, I've bled about a dozen times and I've been having sex for years. I think a lot of it has to do with the intensity of it too.
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Question Asker OMG Thanks So Much! It Help Calm Some Of My Fears =] - 5 months ago

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PrettyMochina (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
I didn't bleed at all my first time but every womans body in unique. You should see your gynecologist ASAP. That is not normal and hopefully your not hemorrhaging. I see your under 18 and I know your scared. But no one on this forum is going to be able to examine you online. PLEASE go to the doctor.
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sexwiseman Given that I worked in the health care field, I disagree with your answer. I have seen cases where women bleed even a month after their first sexual act. - 5 months ago
Answerer I still see no harm in you going to the doctor ASAP! - 5 months ago
 
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