How do I ride him?

Sometimes its not you that rides him faster or wilder but how fast and wild he is while you're on top of him.

I don't have any experience here, but I've got a good imagination and a grasp of physical concepts so let's see if we can examine the variables here.

You have trouble keeping him in. One could say, try to not let him come out so much. As in, one tends to go in and out in the midst of such penetrative sexual acts, so do not have him withdraw so much by rising so much, basically you would follow the same principles a horse rider would follow, in that you would try not to get bucked off, nor try to jump off too much yourself.

This is gained in the understanding that movement and intimacy can occur despite remaining relatively connected and unmoving at the pelvis, that the subtle transfer of physical motions can be very pleasurable, and that it does not require being mechanical as you would see in the more overt pornographic films which people tend to believe they are required to emulate in sex, which is of course not true, and that a subtler quality exists to sexual interactions that most media does not demonstrate, and which people probably discover out of either experience or personal pondering.

You say you want to be faster, less sensual, and wilder. I am curious as to why you desire this change.

First of all you don't have to get confused while sex, take it smoothly from slow to fast in an accelerated rhythm. Get your man laid and get over him, try to set on his stomach and that will make him feel your hotness. No need to rush and take your time kissing him and peppering his nick and chest with kisses. After that slowly and with your help let him enter you. At this pint you can do one of two:

1- move forward and backward: keep your hips on the same level (stuck to his) and move forward and backward.

2- move up and down: you can slightly raise your self with the help of your knees and then loose to go down.

In both scenarios you have to start slowly and as I said accelerate your move to end up doing it fast, if you had the feeling that you will loose the control of your body motion in any minute slow down as much as you need until you are sure that your motion is back to control once again.

For me such a position will drive me crazy and I would like to hear some sexy talk from my girl while that, if your partner is good enough he will hold your boobs and do some good work there.

Remember don't go fast, start slowly until you reach a fast acceleration and keep in mind that you are controlling your motion, when you feel you are loosing it simply slow down. To make this wilder let your moan be louder but real at the same time, doing that sound makes men feels good. Hope this will help ya :-)