Sometime last month I asked a similar question if you would date a person like this. The results were quite amazing if not predictable. As you can see in my pic, I pretty much represent billions of men who fall into this category. Many of you rate me as a 4. Either because I am too old or just lack God's blessings(I swear to you all, he and I are going to have a long talk).
Fine. So the real question I have is this: If I am a nice guy, how can a man like myself convince a woman to change her mind? From what I have seen in my life, once a woman makes a decision of yes/no. That's it! Am I wrong on this? The reason I ask is because I got into a massive argument about legalizing prostitution. MY point of view is this: With guys like me, what else can we do?
Let's hear it folks, be harsh. Would men reject a woman who's not measuring up? Would you women say that is that?
I have seen many an ugly man pull loads of women with either one of three things: 1) Confidence (2) Money (3) Charm/Swagger
Stop thinking of yourself as ugly and old. You don't have to resort to prostitutes, you're better than that =) I advise you to be confident and look as good as you can. There is something about a well-dressed man.
There was this guy that I really liked.he was really skinny, not of my race, and was totally not my type. Upon first glance I overlooked him. But then I got to know him and he was so comfortable in his skin, intelligent, and funny that he became the sexiest thing on Earth to me. My friends all laughed but you couldn't tell me nothing about him - I didn't care!
Really, as long as the guy is nice and wants to cuddle, and shares interests like video games. :P Thats all that matters to me. I just want so bad to be treated nicely, doesn't matter what you look like, it just matters if your a jerk.
Guys reject women based on looks all the time, but men are visual creatures.
Legalizing prostitution? You want girls to be treated like DOGS; and sometimes put in cages and things against their will and SOLD to different pimps? No sweetie; no If I were her I would never talk to you again. NEVER!
And yes, usually decisions are final. Because we take a long time to make them. While your talking about one thing; were thinking about stuff. Maybe about what your talking about. but we are always thinking
And most girls look at personality on here. Your picture is only 25% of it. Your answer is what girls are paying attention to. The question isn't what is wrong with the way I look. Its your attitude.
Obviously, you are not a prostitute, nor have you ever had any personal interaction with one. In places where prostitution is ILLEGAL, they are treated like dogs, put in cages and sold to pimps, etc. Where prostitution is LEGAL, those things never happen. - 5 months ago
You cannot ever change a woman's mind unless you can convince her that it is her idea to do so. Or, you can agree with her, in which case she will change her mind, because there is no way she wants her idea/opinion to be associated with yours. Either way, just take no for no and yes for yes. Basically, play dumb. If/when she wants you, she will come around to you. Remember the 28 day rule.... Find the day to which she is at her worst. About 2 weeks later, try it again. You should have about a week (give or take a day or two) to hopefully exploit the most lovely time of the month - ovulation. Let me hear an AMEN!
And yes, I would reject a "woman who's not measuring up". She has to be of legal age (18 to deathbed) and of a reasonably sound mind. Of course, that just disqualified most of the pickings because she would have to be insane to sleep with me. LOL
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Definitely some place relaxing, but noting too distracting. a casual place to eat sounds nice, maybe a park or something afterwards. I like being able to look into someone's eyes, and then walking would give me a chance to talk. I'd end the first date light, simple hug is fine.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
I'm nice, but definitely up there as one of the funniest and nicest person she probably knows. whether it works out or not, ill always be a great friend
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