Is it too soon to have sex?

Well hun, if you were completely ready, you probably wouldn't be asking this question. You'll do it when the time feels right for you.

Granted, at 19 years old, 3 months ( or less ) is usually an adequate amount of time where a woman decides she is going to bed with her boyfriend. But don't let that bother you, because you'll do it when you feel more ready.

And feeling ready to do it doesn't mean that you'll be in love with the guy. Sometimes a woman feels ready even when she isn't fully in love yet.

So, don't worry about being in love. Just allow yourself to fully feel ready, whether you are in love or not. Then when the time comes, you'll know for certain. :-)

If not now, when? Have sex only when you are secure about it, especially since it will be your first time. If you wait too long, it's too late. But since you are being cautious, you should be ok.

You don't want to do it, so tell him you don't want to do it. Never be afraid to be honest about how you feel. You've waited this long to have sex, so why rush now? And if he can't handle it, then he's not the guy for you. You want a guy that loves you for who you are, not for what you have. And if he can't respect what is really important for you, then he's not good enough for you. Only one person can take your virginity. And since it is very important to you, don't be afraid to hold onto it until you're 100% ready. You're not weird, you're not different. You know what you want, and that is awesome. Don't ever be afraid of that.

Guess what, you'll never be completely sure about anything in life; you learn to roll with life and all it punches and pleasures.

A girlfriend of mine once told me, sex is like a handshake, but a handshake you only do with a special person. Just think of sex as a way of hugging and kissing someone with all of your body. Sex is sex is sex is sex, sex is not love, and love is not sex - there's no reason to hold off any longer - just do it and get over it. 3 months is plenty of time to wait - I'm sure your a lovely woman, but if I was your boyfriend, and you had this much of a hang-up over sex, I would have most likely broken up with you after 6 weeks tops. Remember its natural to have sex in a healthy relationship. If you find you have no sex drive, you may have a hormonal imbalance and should consult a professional.

Sex is not always the most enjoyable, you have to find what works for you. Your first time will most likely not be all that great, both because you have no idea what your doing, and because most guys really suck in bed - you'll look back on this in a few years and laugh. It is rare for a women in her twenties to wait 3 weeks, let alone 3 months - frankly, some people "fit" together better then others, and its a good idea to find out if this person is the whole package, including sex, before committing to long-term love. I know several girls that love their boyfriends/husbands, but complain or even cheat, because their sex life is so bad.

On a side note, your boyfriend may end up cheating on you sooner then you think(he may be already) if you don't start having a "natural" relationship.

You answered your own question, but you're not listening to your own voice. The fact that you're questioning if you should do it or not, tells me that you don't really want to do this.
If you do it now, you'll regret it later. Many girls will tell you that they first did it cause it felt it was right. I don't think you feel that way, so you'll be wasting it. So best to wait, and if he keeps pushing it, dump him and move on to a more respectful guy.

Wait until YOU are ready if YOU want to then go ahead and not then don't there are ways that ya know feel better and other positions that are better than others don't get me wrong but really you can't do it "wrong" so if ya want have fun with it but if not . And he truly loves you then he'll wait

No you shouldn't have sex with him after three months. That is too soon for you. Especially since your still a virgin. If he means well by you, he will take it slow and wait for when you think its best. If he doesn't wait then he wasn't for you anyways.

If you are asking this question, then I think you already have your answer! You are not ready. And their is NOTHING wrong with that. If your boyfriend really cares about you he will not pressure you into something you are not ready for, and if he tries then you don't need him anyway. I was a virgin until recently and I am 23 years old. I don't regret waiting at all. I was only with my boyfriend for 6 weeks before we slept together, but it felt right, and still feels right. Don't get me wrong, I was still nervous, but a different kind of nervous. When you are ready you will know it and it will just happen naturally. You won't have to plan for it and over analyze it and convince yourself it is the right thing to do. You will just KNOW.

And think about this, if your boyfriend can't be in a serious relationship without sex, who's to say he will stick around after you sleep with him! You need to know he cares about you for you, not that he just wants your body! Good Luck! I think you will know what to do when the time comes!

Well, you've only been with him for 3 months. Personally, I would give it more time, you just don't want to give it up to someone you're not in love with! Don't let him put it onto you. You need to give yourself time, and when you feel that you're comfortable enough to do it (mentally, emotionally, etc.). I've also been told that sex is much, much better when they share it with someone they really really care about and love. There are girls I know that gave it up to their boyfriend they only dated for a while, met that one guy they fell for and said that they wished they did it with the guy they loved instead of the guy they only a a little bit of feelings for. I hoped that helped!