Is there a problem with my sex drive?

I could maybe help you a little better if you give me some more details about him. Are you his first girlfriend, what is he doing to satisfy you? Did he come? Did he wear a condom for the BJ? Please let me know, this is important to give you better advice.
here is something other people may think different but I think it is not the best start to gain sexual experience for a woman to do a BJ. Actually giving a man a BJ is not to easy. Specially I think because you are a virgin you are doing something to your guy that you don't felt yet. Did you do it for yourself yet? I think the most important thing for you only for you is that you get an idea of how it feels to get an orgasm. Even if you are doing it yourself. I think you can only get excited about it if you actually know how it will be.
This is how it worked for me the last time. We had first sex a few times to get each other known. Also to understand how we react. I did her the first few BJ. I introduced her to do one for me only after a time and I help her with putting some honey the first times. It was fun for both, for me a pleasure for her at least delicious. Now most of the time when I get a BJ, I'm never passive and I'm also affectionate to her whilst she is working. You should not do it again, if you don't feel anything. Specially if don't get satisfied as well.

One thing it might be, is that you were just a little too concerned about how it would turn out, because you are inexperienced. So, anxiety like that can be a real downer the first time or two.

But don't worry, the more you get used to it, the more you'll settle into it and the better it will be. ;-)

You are more than normal... First time I went down on a girl, I can assure you, I didn't feel quite as sexy or horny as I do now because it felt very mechanical and nerve racking.

Besides, some girls I've been with were /not/ into it at all and others would love nothing more and neither option is the end of the world... Plenty of other things to do in the bedroom.

Hi there, I get a little bit the feeling it was very technical. Both of you should be very affectionate to each other. If you kiss him, he should do so, if you bj him, he should a least do something that makes you also feeling very good. You didn't say anything about what he did, during the bj. Take your time but don't do anything just because you are afraid now it's the time you have to do. I believe it is the man job to make a woman horny. There are many many ways of how to do that. When time comes you might be excited to do 69. Giving a bj and getting one at the same time could let you forget about that you even not like to do a bj. Take your time

The person getting the bj is getting heated up, but not necessarily the person giving the oral, which is you. I know when when giving her oral on her pussy I don't feel as excited as when she rides me or during a blow job, obviously. Many girls complain to me that the previous dudes they've had sex with only want the pleasure, so obviously there is not really a euphoric, pleasant feeling giving the oral. He gives some, you give some; do you feel me? If during penetration or when he services you, you still don't feel much, then there's something wrong. As for not feeling excited giving head is nothing strange, especially for a first timer. Enjoy ^ ^

Wow girl! Are you sure you didn't feel excited or horny at all!? May I ask you something! Honestly did you want to have sex! Or you just said to your self "OK LETS TRY IT OUT! ". Cause if you had the desire in you to have sex you will be so exited about it. If you do want to have sex but keep feeling the same, I would advice that you define what motivates the desire in you! For example a certain man body part, or a certain sex position! Try to concentrate on those things that motivate your desire and keeps it running, write them down. I also would advice you to watch porn movies so you can have an idea about what SEX really is!

Hope this would help :-)

Sometimes I get the same way, it just becomes a chore, when I'm not in the mode to do that, and he is. When he wants a BJ, ask him to stroke your body and pay some attention to you. 69 is a good idea, if you want that. But if you don't, have him tell you how it feels, if you get tired sucking, move your hand up and down while you mouth kisses his stomach, while your other hand strokes his body, If you like him talking dirty to you, try that.

There is nothing wrong with you OR your sex drive. Everyone is different when it comes to what turns them on, turns them off or just doesn't have any effect at all.

You learn over time what makes you feel good, and what doesn't, and that's different for everyone. As you experiment more, you will probably start to feel turned on by your partner getting turned on, but when you try something for the first time, it's only natural that you're focused on what you're doing and not really thinking about how it makes you feel.

Take some time to experiment with this guy, if you really like him and feel that he's someone who can give as well as take, and make sure you're comfortable with what's happening.

I personally don't advise you to watch porn to learn about sex. Porn doesn't depict a realistic view of sex, it is more geared towards creating fantasy situations (usually more male fantasies than female). Learning what turns you on comes with knowing your body and communicating with your partner. That doesn't have to mean sitting down and having some weird, clinical conversation about sex. It just means telling him when things feel good, or when they don't, and asking him to do the same.

Take things at your own pace, and do things because you want to and you're comfortable with them.

And once again: There is NOTHING wrong with you. :)