Giving a BJ... Help please

The most important thing is . . . watch and listen to his reactions. If you're doing something he likes you'll know. But don't try to be like the videos show. Be yourself, have fun, and remember sex needs to be fun and enjoyable (for you both - not just him).

you need to keep switching it up to vary the stimulation. a key thing is also how you act in general. you need to be enthusiastically into it and acting like you are loving it. many girls go into this quite ashamed kind of mode when they go to give head. you need to act like you are really into it, look up at his eyes a lot, get sloppy and just go with it. make the mmmmmmm sound, like you love the taste of it.
swirl your tongue around the head of the penis. lick his balls while you jerk him off. rub the head of his **** on your lips without putting it in your mouth. put the head in and out of your mouth but not very far, just past the lips. keep your lips tight around the head and go in and out a little like you are sucking on a lollipop, but don't actually suck too hard. sometimes it is nice to see you only taking healf the head in. we like to see your lips wrapped around it and still see some of the head. it is really nice if you are doing the lollipop thing while looking innocently up at us. we like it when you act like you need to suck our penis or you won't be happy. rub his penis head on the inside of your cheek sometimes.
by the way it is way better if we are standing up or sitting in a chair and you are on your knees, it is just a hotter situation and we can see everything.

here is the real kicker, master this and he will be in heaven: when you are sucking it pull it out every once in a while, look up at your man in his eyes and slap his penis against your extended tongue a bunch of times and then rub his **** quickly all over your tongue but keep your tongue extended and steady and move the **** to make it rub on your tongue, all the while still staring him in the eyes. don't be afraid to get sloppy and dirty about it, we like that. some girls get alll nervous and think that they have to do it some specific way, but generally we want you to lose yourself in it and just be enthusiastic and sloppy about it. we love the fact that you are getting so close and personal with our penis and happily rubbing it all over you tongue, lips and even face. slapping and rubbing it on your breasts now and again is always nice too while you take a little break from sucking.

it sounds kind of perverted, but one of the great things about getting head is that the girl is looking sweet and innocent and she can barely take our big throbbing penis in her mouth but she is trying and getting it rubbed all over her. we like that you are taking a kind of submissive position to us, getting down on your knees and working hard just to make us feel great. for me the best part is watching her do all those nasty sloppy things with my penis.

oh, also grip his balls when you are doing it and make sure to give them a little attention to.

what that dude said is wrong...giving head would take practice first off you gotta know your own gag reflexes and give head based upon that for example if you have very little or none you can deepthroat which is most guys favorite thing now if you have bad gag rETH with your lips...a scraping blowjob is painful other than the fact the girl is trying and that turns a guy on when a girl puts in effort its not fun at all you wanna switch it up lick his shaft and balls get your lips and his penis wet if you can deepthroat him you could even practice that with something similar to a penis shape but if you can deepthroat throw that in switch it up ask your man wha the likes if your an amature make it cute and sexyand tell him your inexperienced in a cute way and tell him to train you or something thatd get him going you now if you can't deepthroat put a lot of spit on himand your lips and hands and make your hands an extension of your mouth and go with the rhythm of how your giving head you can do the twist hand work to...if you don't know what I mean you'll see it in many pornos and last if you haven't ever tasted come try to figure out if you won't mind swallowing or having it in your mouth...if your a picky eater and don't like certain texture of foods and you gag easily from bad taste or smell come in your mouth might not work...so you can have a pre arranged plan with his come after you give him that amazing bj :)

there are MANY ways to give a blowjob. bottom line - if his dick is in your mouth, he is happy, everything else is a bonus. and ask him what he wants and he will tell you and get more out of it because it will be a blowjob tailored just for him. ;)

There are definitely things that work - and a lot of them that don't. The problem is most girls have no idea what does and what does not work - or even worse, they think they know what works - but they're clueless in reality. There's a great book out there now about blow jobs that might help you out. Here's a link for you to check it out ---> link

Don't be afraid to gag - it turns a lot of us on.

depends on the situation. what kind of guy he is, how is your relationship. ok well, the easiest thing to to is to picture IT like an ice cream cone one hand holding the cone, mouth open to the top and have at it.. and use your tongue to get any ice cream off the sides.

small circles with tongue.
mouth cups and strokes the side of the cone.
tongue glides on the side
and try not to slide teeth on IT, it may cause some pain and discomfort.

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just google "how to give blowjobs" and you can come up with loads of material to read, videos to watch, etc... even porn is pretty good education tool lolol

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Here are some of our favorites:

"Tickle his Pickle"
"The low down on going down"
"Make your wife hot"

Google any of these titles and you'll be on your way to becoming his obsession!

Seriously... Try using your hand along with your mouth. Don't be afraid of your manners and spit on that thing. It's like a combination bj/hj. If you make that work, you can make your man explode on command. For real. :)

Jesus christ, the ladies comments just made me jerk. Good Job.

lick my balls a lot and suck them lightly and then deepthroat it and suck hard then go up and down over and over very fast and then lick my balls some more...play with your p**** while your sucking it and make sure he can see that your doing it...always remeber to lick balls

not to sound like a perv but you need to find a close male friend and ask if he can teach you. I would offer but I've never been given a blow job before.

A friend of mine told me about this site that offers a step by step guide to giving the best oral sex to your guy. You can check it out here: link It is well worth it. I had no idea there were so many things you could do to give your guy the best oral of his life!

Main thing to do is let yourself enjoy it and don't worry about trying to make him come. Enjoy the ride. Communicate before, during and after about what he likes and what you like. I have answered this same question in depth elsewhere so I will just copy/paste bellow:

1. Avoid teeth action. Teeth=bad (unless it's very light pretend biting).

2. Avoid overly going fast and steady for too long unless you are literally just trying to get him off quickly. If you are giving head for the pleasure of it (yours and his), then change it up often and generally go slowly and teasingly.

3. Regular eye contact for about 5-15 seconds each time. Add a smile, wink or flirty gesture here.

4. Licking and sucking in various ways around the head and frenulum (soft sensitive spot just below the head on the underside which is equivalent to a woman's clitoris) is the sure win.

5. Full licks up one side and down the other of his shaft is nice and it's good to do between the really stimulating actions (this gives you a nice rest and also helps slow down his build-up).

6. Finger and lick and lightly suck his balls. Ask first how he likes this though since this is a very sensitive spot and a lot of guys vary with this and even the same guy could love you sucking on his balls one day but another day it could be way too sensitive.

7. If you are going to stroke his shaft with a hand while you use your mouth, then you MUST make sure you are lubricated. Saliva or KY or whatever brand you like.

8. Whatever level of sexy dirty-talk you can muster is great. Try to keep it real though since I believe most people get turned off by the fake porn-style dirty-talk. Get him to talk too. Erotic talking during any sex act can be a major booster.

9. Tease, especially in the beginning. Use seductive looks and pause with your mouth open right over the head of his penis. This anticipation will drive him crazy and be fun for you.

10. Most importantly, as long as you are careful not to hurt him then do whatever you like doing. It should be just as much fun for you as for him. He will mostly get turned on by the fact that you like doing it.

well, what I like to do is act like I'm sucking on a sucker. that suction seems to really help. and if you're not into it, he'll be able to tell and he may no longer be excited by that. also, if you can't get the entire thing in your mouth (which lots of ladies aren't able to do) then use your hand in the same motion as you use your mouth. you may also want to try stimulating his, for lack of a better term in order to get my point across, balls lol. try that and see what happens.

Ok #1 rule: It doesn't matter if he's trying to get you to go down further, it's better to resist a little than puke on him. Form experience, gagging doesn't bother guys if it happens, and they don't even notice.

Other tips are to use your tongue on the underside of his penis. Especially the underside right below his head.. very good spot. If you have enough room, swirl your tongue while you're going up and down. If not, swirl it around his head when you get to the top. Vary the pressure of your tongue and the speed and depth, cause or else it would get boring for them after a while.

Use your hand too! Follow your mouth with it so your hand is a little lower on his penis. Don't be afriad to get it realllllly wet. That makes it feel really good for them, it doesn't even matetr if you get spit all over your hand or mouth :P

DO:
make it wet & sloppy
pay lots of attention to the head of it
cradle his balls (I know it sounds gross, but he'll love it)
moan while you're doing it
use hands while you're sucking in a rhythmic motion

DON'T:
use teeth
take it so far you start to choke
slap his balls around, ouch!

well if you can't go too deep and your not that experienced don't try going deeper than you can, sure a guy might feel cool cause you just like gaged on his penis,but its relle not fun for you lol just suck as much as you can and move ur hand up and down on the bottom of his penis if you can't go too deep so the whole penis feels pleasure. no teeth for sure! lol but yea, suck hard and move your tongue around when your sucking.like is circles or kinda a figure 8. it adds a lot of pleasure lol he'll go nuts. at least my boyfriend does :) lol btw. I wouldn't suck his balls unless he's into it. not all guys like that. and if you do and he isn't into someone sucking his balls, that could become a little embarrassing. :)

oh the blow job... NO TEETH! =] haha, and also don't worry about the deep throat crap, all it does is make you gag. SO, just stimulate the head of the penis. (all technical, we don't want any of those boys out there to read this and go crazy. ;) use your hand (right handed use right, left handed use left) and just give him a hand job basically while stimulating the head. BUT worst case scenario, just ask. =] Boys are NOT afraid to tell you what they want =]

Well just make sure you use a little pressure and that you use your hand like stroking it.
Some guys like some teeth but you obviously don't wanna scrape it haha.
Make sure to look up at the guy also and play with his balls.
Other than that...you'll be fine.
Good Luck :)))

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hold it in your hand and start kissing the top and down til you get to your hand and back up after you have kissed for awhile start licking. same thing you did while kissing just licking this time. moan a little too. guys fall apart about a girl moaning. lick around the line that separates the penis form the head then put the head in don't get too much a first tease him with it do that a few times then add a little more keep repeating until you can't handle anymore. make sure you use your tongue if you can if not you have just complete a damn good bj.

Ok,A few days ago I answered a Q similar to this,so I'll just copy and paste the stuff I put
Use of Teeth,Not knowing what to do exactly,Stopping right before he cums,Ruining the moment by being insecure about how you look giving him head,mood killers.I say,if you're in committed and loving relationship,communicate.Communication is the key to any healthy relationship.Just ask him before hand what he likes,ask how he likes to be gripped,how tight,ask him about playing with his "friends" and if he likes that,talk to him before hand about what will happen when he cums,like if you will swallow/spit,ask what pace/rhythm he prefers.Honestly,I say focus on what makes a good Bj.Use lots of Saliva,Vary the speed/Pace,Swallow,Use different tongue action,Lick,Flick and Suck,Don't just pay attention to the head,Make eye contact,limit it to no more than 10 seconds,don't stare cause then it's creepy,make noises,like moaning noises,pretend his d!ck is something you crave and HAVE to have,basically make love to his penis.Enjoy it
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there's the proof of my answer just in case you were wondering

Lots of saliva, use your tongue BOTH SIDES, a nice stroke like you are turning a door knob, lick and suck on his balls, and always always take it deep in your throat, turn your head from side to side, lots of saliva on your lips against his head quickly like your saying NO, and your can smack your face with his dick. Good LUCK! : )) And you must not be shy! I would not know what does work so I can't give advice there, I've never had any complaints.