Help! horn dog needs taming, what do I say?

There isn't really a standard on how often couples do it .

If he wants it much more than you, all you can do is tell him that you just have never had the desire to have it that often . He'll have to accept it .

But understand that he will need to masterbate more .

have you tried talking to him,? He should respect your comfort zone, if he doesn't then he is not overly concerned about you, however, if you are running around half necked, being provocative, or throwing out signals your unaware of. He's going to go after you and not realize what your going through. And yes in todays society, with all the work, taking care of the household , 2 people working, sex is a weekend event.

Does he have a lot of time on his hands? Most of the time when guys get horny, it's because we're bored. If he's out working on cars, playing sports, hanging out with friends, there is no time for being horny. But if he's bored a lot, or spends a lot of time at home, chances are, that doesn't help the cause. Is his work pretty easy? Does there seem to be a lot of things that challenge him in life, or is he just kind of floating by?

This works on dogs... Take a newspaper, roll it up, and slap him on the nose with it. :)

Don't try to rationalize it by drawing upon statistic of how often married people do it. Some do it twice a day, others do it once a month, and I've known couples who went without sex for at least a few years.

Let me ask you, before you got married, or even shortly after you married (the honeymoon period) how often were you having sex? Was it on average more frequent than what he wants now, was it less or is it about the same amount?

Communication is key... What are the key arguments on either side when you argue about this?

well there is no way to tame your horn dog. if you love him and he loves you, you might be able to work something out. for example, the next time he wants sex and you don't, tell him your not in the mood but you will make it up to him later, or you could do some alternative stuff. but he should be willing to work with you to if he loves you. but to answer your question i think a couple in love that live together should do it 3 to 4 times a week. as long as there not fighting or stressed out. that changes things. i hope that helps.

I am jealous. LOL I would gladly have sex all the time with my husband. But he only seems to want it once or twice a week.