We're not dating or anything. We've just happened to fool around a bit. But he's like too concerned with how I feel about things, while I just wanna have some fun already. Would it be too intimidating for me to like suggest doing more things or even adventurous things like stuff in public and stuff. Also, how can I hint that I want it aggressive, dammit!
Worse than feeling aggressive or intimidating is the feeling that you are suppressing your wants and/or needs. Discretion should be in the back of your mind but it is always best to put out there how you feel about things and what interests you. If the maturity level is there, you will either get a polite 'no,' or a 'hell yeah! ' If you get anything but one of those two you need to weigh how important it is to that particular relationship.
There's nothing wrong with it at all, hun. In fact, many guys appreciate a girl who is aggressive. . And, as far as suggesting goes, you just need to come out and say it, because trying to hint at it just isn't going to work. So, work up the courage to tell him, and I'm sure he'll like it. Then you'll feel much better about it. :-)
Tell him... we are not mind readers. If he feels timid about it at first then initiate something in public. Once the little soldiers wakes up he'll take over the rest of the brain functions. :)
Make it happen by way of your actions - just be straight up and tell him what you want. Tell him something like - take me, own me, forget about my feelings baby. Don't you want this body?
BAM, and there it is.
If he still has hang-ups, find someone else who is willing to fool around and doesn't want to jump into deciding baby names already~
What you want is what is referred to as friends-with-benefits. Enjoy it while your head space allows it.
Wow it seems like you're a fun gal and he's not aggressive enough. Try initiating some moves; a guy may be intimidated to initiate what you want, but not when someone does that to him.
I did initiate it once, but then even the next time he was still wary, as if trying to not make a "wrong" move. You'd think he'd get it by now. But I guess I just gotta kick it up a notch? - 8 months ago
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Screw telling him with words...show him, just do it, take the initiative....show him that you wanna have fun! if you are aggressive that should 'hint' to him in a big way that you are ok with being aggressive and that you can actually tell him that that's how you want it.....
You could also try to talk to him about what "exciting" things he would have in mind. Try to get a feeling of what some of his adventurous desires may be. Start it from there, and you will see, it may go smooth after that. This way is not so intimidating. Sometimes it's like a game.
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