If you do it, it's important that you do it because you want to, and not because others are doing it. You'll find a guy at some point. But be sure you are ready when you do anything, so that you don't have something happen that you don't like.
Assuming these girls are your age, smile and get away from them. Sex is meant for married people, to bring children into this world with 2 parents caring for the child. Would you jump into a lake without firs learning to swim and knowing where the underwater dangers are? What your going through is natures way of getting your body ready for what sex produces, and your body is not finished , nor is your pocket book to pay for what those others girls are doing, hang tough, wait until you become an adult and can carry the responsibility.
Just because you want to have sex dosent mean your ready to, don't do something just to look cool like your friends may be doing, make your 1st time special
You must understand that there is not a man out here would discourage you from ever having sex. Given that, you should be ok with it but only if you really want to do this for yourself. Don't do it because everyone else is. However, virginity really does suck gutter slime. I agree with the others who have responded that you do not appear to be in the right frame of mind on this so it is best to wait. But don't wait too long. And for heaven's sake when you do say yes, PLAY IT SAFE!
As somebody mentioned, a lot of talk and no action, specially at your age group; also, just today there was a post of a girl giving in to sex, only to find out now that the guy might have used her, and as she says, she will be hurt if this is the case. If you want to have sex, just because everybody is having sex, soon, you ll be doing drugs cause everybody else is doing drugs. If I were you, I would wait, and find the right person and the right reason. However, the most concerning part, is that it seems you don't have a personality of your own. And by that I mean, if you're doing something because others are doing it, then clearly, you are a follower and haven't been raised with a personality of your own. Shame.
Did you actually see the girls having sex or your hearing about girls having sex? You'll find that in high school a lot of people talk the talk but hardly ever walk the talk. This is true of both girls and most definitely the boys who'll tell their friends that they got to third base with a girl but couldn't even muster up the courage to say hi to her.
My advise, if you are unsure, don't do it. Having sex is precious and should not treated like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich at lunch time and just given away or traded.
Just wait until your heart and mind are aligned and you are sure of what you want to do. And 'yes' it is normal to want to have sex especially these days when we are constantly exposed to it in the media and everyday life.
Honestly, it's not hard to find a guy that's willing to have sex. I'd be more concerned with your reasons. It sounds like peer pressure is the main reason that you want to have sex, and from my experience, that's never a good reason. What's really cool is having a solid, mutual relationship with your significant other. It's way more fulfilling, and there aren't as many potential consequences. Think about what your best course of action would be, and don't let people you know pressure you into making a decision that you don't want to make or don't feel is right.
Keep your virginity until your truly ready, sex screws with your mind and if your not ready to handle all of the responsibilities, emotions and complications involved, things cn get messy. It's best to have a boyfriend when you finally decide to have sex, because you will be more comfortable with him, sex with strangers may be satisfying at the time, but after you feel guilty and feel used (even if you used him for the same reason).
Sounds like you just want to have sex because your friends do. I was in the same boat as you in high school! I did alright with guys in high school but I felt like a square because I hadn't had sex with any of them! But I wasn't sure I was ready so I held out for the right guy & I'm glad I did :). I had that special first time that a lot of people regret not having. I know a lot of friends that have always regretted making their first time with a random guy. Just make sure you know you want to before you do it.
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