How can I hint to a guy, that I WANT him to be aggressive?

You could with a sultry voice say something like."I want you to tear my P***Y apart" (which yes, is a bit on the blunt side but it kinda encompasses the idea and might fuel his imagination" orrr. You should slip in a movie that might contain a hot sex scene that has those elements of aggression, etc and when that part plays you could say something out of the blue like "ooooh that's sooo F**KING HOT! or Damn.that just gets me hot" and hopefully that should give him a clue ;)

Well, what I think would be a good idea ( and this works with other topics ) is if you bring it up at a moment when you aren't intimate with him. Let him know during a walk, or lunch, or something else casual, that you would really love it if he takes charge of you in the bedroom and that he doesn't have to ask, just grab ahold of you and have his way with you.

Let him know that. And then the next time you are intimate with him, see how he responds. It should be okay, somethimes you just need to bring a guy out of his shell. ;-)

Ummm. Why don't you be aggressive with him! Just don't over react it. Show some aggressive, talk about it indirectly like for example "you know my friend dated this guy who is aggressive but didn't like it! I'm really wondering why! I find aggressive guys sexy, what do you think! " you know get him involved in such a conversation, that may deliver the message!

You could probably start off with something easy like, when you're in a good moment, saying something like "I want you on top of me" or "It would feel amazing if you just [action] by surprise"

If you want him to be aggressive start being aggressive yourself. Don't tell him, that could be awkward. Show him that your not afraid of being a little aggressive, take the initiative and go for it!

I had this problem with my ex, he was always so gentle and non-aggressive in bed. Although the sex was great, it wasn't satisfying. We had dinner one night, and I told him what I liked or really liked. I love it when he's kissing me and he pulls my hair, I really loved aggressiveness in bed etc.

Next night, I came over, we had wine, kisses, hair pulling etc. Since that night, we never stopped telling each other what we wanted more of, or enjoyed. Sex was always fantastic every time after - we still get together for a hot night as well.

So just step in there and ask him or tell him what makes you feel great. If he's a good listener, you're in for some great times.

Well. It might be a good idea to discuss what he likes and tell him what you like. Make sure he likes to be aggressive. Which most guys usually do. I usually just say "do it harder. " lol I have no shame! I love it and I know he does too. Its a turn on for a guy. If you're really into it just say it! Don't be so afraid