So last night my boyfriend and I were talking and we haven't really done anything under clothing yet... he asked me if I'm shaven or if I have hair down there,
I keep things tidy but am naturally not very hairy, it's not a bush! (Haha). He said yeah he doesn't like the pornstar look, he likes natural...
But all the girls he has had sex with (he's waaay more experienced, I'm still a virgin) have all been shaven so he's never had it natural...
Does it bug you guys? How big of a deal is it? I mean when you go down on a girl doesn't it gross you out to have some hair... I know it's natural but I always thought I would have to shave for him... he says he wants it natural tho, does he really mean it?
Thanks - sorry sound so silly I'm just curious and a little confused! Haha
First, if you're a virgin and you want to keep it that way then don't change your mind just for him. That being said, it really depends. If you're not too hairy down there then you could just trim it and keep it clean. Maybe just shave the sides a little so you have a thin strip... about one or two inches wide... from top to bottom (not too thick). If it's done right it should look something like the fuzzy side of velcro. Some guys like that. Definitely shave where to need to so he doesn't get hair in his mouth. I don't think anyone likes that.
For the sides, its better to wax, for you and for him, because its gets itchy with the shaving. It'll hurt a little but it stays beautiful for more than a month and it grows very soft. I agree with him, I don't think he wants hair in his mouth and you can avoid by trimming (scisors or clipper), its very simple loll it looks good and natural for a virgin like you its perfect =) btw, I'm not virgin but I still do it like that, because he likes it natural too! One thing: just keep it clean and he'll love it - 6 months ago
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When: 7 months ago
I'd say do what you want... I personally like the girl shaven, no one wants hair in their mouth.
I want to know what you would do if your girl had a bush and refused to shave it. Would you walk away from her or just be happy with what you have? If the girl is totally shaved you going to do the same to yourself Would love for you to truthfully answer them for me. Thanks - 6 months ago
I trim it so it's not too long and messy but I wouldn't shave it because it'd probably itch and get irritated and whatnot. cutting it carefully (especially the front) should make it look less messy but natural at the same time.
okay I keep it completely hair free. I personally am grossed out by anyone with hair down there and I think its completely nasty to look at. but if you do keep it natural at least trim it and don't let it get nasty. but if you do choose to go without hair I would recommend not to shave. before I got laser hair removal, I used to wax weekly. and if your shy and don't want to go and have a lady get down therei would get the at home wax. its not hard to use. you basaclly just microwave it or put it in a crockpot
also people say it hurts like hell and not to do it. but it will only hurt the first few times you try it(: just make sure you get all of the wax off cause it will hurt after a while. and don't heat it up to much, it can burn your skin.
Thanks that does help - but do you think if I go and do the wax and he's now said he wants me natural he will be upset? or disappointed? I always thought yeah that's its gross and that when I started being sexually active I would have to be hairless... - 7 months ago
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