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How do I get him to be more creative?

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Slivercheer (Age:18 to 24)     When: 8 months ago
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OK I like to be very aggressive during sex and when he's on top it just doesn't really work for me even doggy style not really. I have to be on top and in control to make the most of it! When he tries to help I push his hands off my hips because he messes up my flow sometimes. I also want to try more kinky things but he gets offended and doesn't want to do them. Any advice on how to get him to do things without hurting his feelings? I've tried guiding his hands with mine and that works sometimes. He's really good some days and then others not so much. And when it is good I say like "oh remember that spot" or try to act more into it. But I do fake it if it's not working should I not?

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deadwait (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
Go to a book store with him, while there giggle about the adult sex books, and then look at them with him and maybe even buy one - that should spark the "creativity" as you call it.

And yeah, you should always fake it "a little bit" - but make sure to really get into it when its good - you can also guide by the sounds of your moans - guys respond to that well for the most part.

Honestly I hate it when I woman tries to lead my hand or body during it - much prefer to hear her moan or feel her tremble when what I am doing is working.
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Snoosome (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
You should be creative first- act out your fantasies! Let him take a break and show him what you want by doing it to him - but make sure it's pleasurable or else I don't think he'll ever try it.
I'd try tying him up.
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hottielips13
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hottielips13 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Perhaps try talking dirty to him. It might turn him on or try other positions that maybe will be more comfortable and sexier for the both of you
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