I feel sorry for girls today, thinking that it's a requirement for them to be clean shaven down there. Neatly trimmed is fine. It actually adds a bit of uniqueness and personality to your body. If all women were clean-shaven, they'd all start to look the same with their clothes off. Honestly, I think the clean-shaven/Brazilian look has escalated out of control due to online porn. The majority of girls from online porn sites are clean shaven, so when guys (especially the younger ones! ) go out to look at this, they assume that's the norm. So, if your guy insists that you are clean-shaven, make sure it's not because that's all he's seen online.
I know, it makes me feel like I am a little kid again. its not natural, I don't get why guys like it. I think a little hair is good. and I don't expect guys to be shaven either. but trimming is always nice for both sexes. - 6 months ago
Usually it doesn't matter as long as the hair is not long! trimming is nice and also shaving is very good. But whatever happens don't let the hair go long! that would be disgusting.
For fingering, it matters not. For sex, no hair is great. Tightly trimmed is also good too. But complete hairless is best especially for oral sex but at your age group as someone else mentioned, it shouldn't be that big a deal to a boy.
For the record, even I shave. Found out that women like clean men as well.
In your age group, I doubt that any guy would have any issue with pubic hair if he is able to get that close to a girl. If he actually has an issue with it then you're clearly dealing with a prima-donna-type-of-guy and nobody requires that much drama from a boy or girl.
I would think that most guys prefer shaved or at least trimmed. In this day and age of hygiene, I think that most guys expect girls to do some sort of yard work.
Personally I think we should all go back to the 1970's, when no one shaved their bush. I think that would be so funny, like in the movie "Carrie", you can't even see their vagina because there is so much hair in the way. Lol. I mean when did men start caring if we had too much hair down there, they should just be thankful that we have sex with them in the first place. And I know lots of guys that don't shave themselves, and we don't say anything.