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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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My fiancee looks at porn. Does that mean he finds me unattractive?


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longingformore47
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longingformore47      When: 3 months ago
nah I don't believe you have anything to worry about.
my boyfriend looks at it and still makes me feel and believe I'm
the sexiest
its just something to occupy time and all men love
something dirty.
i might suggest that you look at it together
that might sound odd but my boyfriend and I do it
often.
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nice_guy7
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nice_guy7      When: 25 days ago
absolutely not, why do girls think this?
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wild-tangent
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wild-tangent      When: 29 days ago
Short answer: no.

Porn is awesome. Did you know that in the 1950s, according to the 1950s Kinsey report (a document and poll based on cataloging sex), around a thousand people of those married couples that were interviewed didn't know why they hadn't conceived, but didn't know what sex was? Today's generation is better informed about sex than any other generation has ever been. The g-spot was only discovered and documented within this past century, for example! How ridiculous is that!
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Subotai
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Subotai      When: A month ago
No porn is really not at all like sex. Its a fantasy and its for masturbation really. It gives relief of sexual desire without any human contact. In general does he want sex more than you. It may be his way of not pressuring you too much. most guys see masturbation as an outlet of sexuality that would seem innapropriate in the real world. I am single but if I'm gonna go on a date or see a girl I like I often masturbate first, to some porn, so I don't act stupid or desperate and I am more relaxed.
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beefpatrol
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beefpatrol      When: A month ago
No. If anything, it is probably because he wants more sex with you than he's getting.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 2 months ago
Ask him why he watches it... Learn more about him!
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mav0502
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mav0502      When: 3 months ago
nope, doesn;t mean that at all. have you tried to watch it with him? and actually see how bad the acting is...lol..and how ugly a lot of the people are...it can be for just the sense of getting off, or it could be curiosity...he could be learning some new tricks to use with u...so try watching it with him or talking to him about it and see what he says...could be interesting.
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tim_hortuns
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tim_hortuns      When: 3 months ago
no it means he can't come to you to fulfil his sexual fantasies...you should learn to lick/suck balls and swallow and give way better head and basically do anything he asks
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Anonymous User      When: 3 months ago
no. if you found a painting that you really liked, and you put it up in your house, would you spend the rest of your life never looking at another painting?
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Virtuales Haha good one - 3 months ago

QuantumInc
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QuantumInc      When: 3 months ago
It's probably a difference between simply "getting off" VS "making love". If I merely wanted to induce an orgasm on myself, I wouldn't necessarily get my significant other involved, meanwhile watching pornography would be very easy and helps greatly during masturbation. When he comes to you for sex, he is probably thinking of more than just an orgasm, and wants to make love to his woman.
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Littletad
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Littletad      When: 3 months ago
No...
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debsman
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debsman      When: 3 months ago
Porn is eye candy. do you watch it with him ? If not, try it.
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PurpleDinosaur Lets take advice from a guy whos picture says orgasm! - 3 months ago
Answerer Let's take a closer look at the picture...it's a button. And we should listen moreso to a guy that calls himself Purple Dinosaur ? Ok Barney ! - 3 months ago
dave216 Just curious Purple, is there some point too your rude comment? - 3 months ago

Dela1111
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Dela1111      When: 3 months ago
no that means he likes porn.
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Camilus
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Camilus      When: 3 months ago
And so it begins...
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seldin
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seldin      When: 3 months ago
Nope you have nothing to worry about. All guys do it.
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TeresaTiger
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TeresaTiger      When: 23 days ago
Only if you whine and behave insecurely. Relax. Nothing really to worry about. From a psychological stand point, you look at porn too. You may not realize it but you do. Every semi-normal human looks at other people with some level of sexual interest whether it is subconscious or blatant. Have you never been somewhere in public and seen an attractive person? Possibly followed by a fleeting thought or mild sexual fantasy? That's the same thing. Porn is natural and healthy (not counting non-consensual violence or hate stuff).
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analy      When: 3 months ago
well..it actually depends on ur relationship...if he's just a perve then that's the way its gonna be..you should watch it with him..if you wanna just kick it up a notch...non like my relationship.my fiancee doesn't watch porn because he finds it that if you watch porn it means ur not ha[[y with ur sexuality..its kind of like he's respecting us
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 3 months ago
no all guys do it you should do it with him he would think that was really hot and it actually not that bad once you start watching it, turns me on!
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piemaster
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piemaster      When: 3 months ago
Not at all, dear. Porn is entertainment.

That's almost like a man saying: "My wife watches sappy romance movies, does this mean she finds me less romantic?"

But I honestly understand why you'd worry... there's a little voice in the back of my head that tells me the same thing. Ignore it, it's negative and just wants to make drama. D:
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queenb2000
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queenb2000      When: 3 months ago
I don't think so.
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Nope
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paigems
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paigems      When: 3 months ago
No.
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