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Why does my wife not want to give me a bj?

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johnsocm (Age:25 to 29)     When: 8 months ago
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I just don't get it? Is there something wrong with me?

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pearl1979
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pearl1979 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
Some women like it others don't. Just like guys some guys give women others don't
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
I answered one of your other questions where you described how LARGE you are! Honestly, your wife sounds like a very petite woman, maybe she cannot fit you into her mouth, and maybe she is afraid to even try. After all, you are a Big boy.

But if you want to know for sure, you should just ask her.
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Question Asker Thank you! - 8 months ago
Sugarcoat Agreed - 8 months ago

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Belleza (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Hey I wouldn't want to give it to a guy either and I don't want a guy to give it to me - I don't know there's just something not right about it to me. Sorry! But then again I heard when you love someone you'd be willing to do anything for that significant other maybe she's like me who finds it overly disgusting - no offense!
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Question Asker Thank you! I don't think she likes it because it makes her gag because she has a very small mouth and I have a larger member. I am not bragging but I really think this is the main reason. Do you think this could be the reason? She always tells me she just doesn't want to? - 8 months ago
Answerer I think so but I still think she isn't comfortable with it maybe she had a bad experience hey you never know the things women go through maybe she experienced something like it and brings bad memories but don't confront her like that just take your time in talking to her! - 8 months ago
Answerer Or if she gave it to you before maybe she just sees there's no point to it anymore! - 8 months ago
Bubbles I can not give a guy a b/j I find it gross. It also makes me gag I have actually threw up from it, sorry to much info there. Maybe she has a really small mouth - 6 months ago
Answerer A small mouth could be it but if I ever do it I'll not only throw up but I think I'll die - it's just disgusting and it really isn't healthy at all even if a person is clean fully - inside and out just the whole cum do we even know what's in it. Now that's too much info lol sorry - 6 months ago

Lesae
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Lesae (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
No some women just aren't into it as much as others. Just love her and try other stuff.
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Question Asker What else could I try? - 8 months ago
Answerer Toys and movies and role playing, blind fold her and giver her a massage, give her oral sex. Ease her into it with foreplay. - 8 months ago
 

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
Some women just don't like to give it. Hopefully the two of you can work through this.
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deadwait
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deadwait (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
Because she doesn't have to now, should have gotten her into that habit before getting married - not much you can do really, you asked, she said no basically
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lovebird01
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lovebird01 (Age:Over 45)      When: 8 months ago
I don't think there is anything wrong with you. Its something that she has to want to do for you. She may just not enjoy it. You could talk to her about it, and see what the reason is for her not wanting to do it. If she really doesn't like doing it, don't get hung up on it. There are other things you both can do with each other for satisfaction;. Oral sex is only one of the many things you can do with each other.
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That-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Isn't it a little late to explore these sexual things? I don't know anything about marriage but this seems like something you discuss early on in the relationship.

Like others have said, talk to her about and listen to why she doesn't want to. Communication!
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Question Asker Thank you! - 8 months ago

sexwiseman
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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
Did she give you one before you married? Or what is her reason as to why not giving you one?
Ive met a lot of women that don't like giving them cause they think is degrading or disgusting, or they don't enjoy it. I think is best to ask her
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Question Asker Yes she gave me a few before we got married, but not often at all. - 8 months ago
Answerer Ok, so basically she is not disgusted with the idea; so that only leaves you with the option of talking to her and asking her how come she doesn't like giving it. You can always say, 'honey, I love your bjs, but I noticed you don't like giving them to me as much. Why is that? ' :) - 8 months ago
 
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