I work in an office and tend to dress quite conservatively. I recently went on a shopping trip for some shoes. The friend who was with me talked me into getting some high spiky heels. She always wears them, and said I would notice a change in the way guys interacted with me. She was right. My boyfriend loves me to wear them in the bedroom with stockings, etc and insists I keep them on during sex. Slutty I know, but wow! He can't keep his hands off me. At work, the men have suddenly got very attentive. Especially if I wear them with a little skirt. Have any other girls noticed this effect? It's crazy!
It isn't crazy, it's basic, primal sexual attraction.
1. Heels make you a little taller. Although some guys have a petite thing, many men (like me), appreciate tall woman. It projects healthy confidence on your part.
2. Have you seen what a nice pair of heels and a tight skirt do to a woman's butt? OMG, it's like wearing a sign on butt that says "look here". Heels have the tendency to push your butt up and out. Grrrrrrrrr, boy is this a nice effect.
3. Heels are very lady like. Only women wear heels, so it's a (constant) visual reminder to us men that we are in the company of a lady.
4. Heels made these delicious, sexy tapping sounds when you walk on wood or un-carpeted floor. Boy is this a big tease, because it's an unmistakable sound (if you've experienced it before). And it's such a nice feeling to know that "a beautiful woman is approaching" -- even if you can't see her yet. Talk about anticipation.
As you can prob. Tell, I love women in heels. It's one of those few things in life that makes me so glad to be a man.
Heels and a skirt = keys to a man's heart. Top that off with a sandwich and an Xbox controller in the other hand and you'll have him tearing up from happiness.
YES! I wear stilettos to work and I do get treated differently than on the days I wear flats. It's normal. But, if you ever need a boost of confidence girls buy some stilettos and a skirt.
Guys like it because it draws attention to your butt. Heel are so uncomfortable. And they give you feet problems. I'd rather a guy likes me for who I am, not what my shoes do.
Wearing heels won't make or break a relationship or attract a guy worth while. If a girl is a 7, Heels will bring her to an 8. That's how great the Heel/skirt combo works if you can do it. Guys catch you with confidence and girls catch us with physical attraction, initially. - 5 months ago
I don't agree with this . When I see a girl in high heels I admire her legs and feet, not her butt . - 5 months ago
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I just don't think what you wear should be that important . I'd rather choose a partner based on who they are, not what they look like . - 5 months ago
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