I am 37 and I seem to be horny at least once a day, my fiance is 36 and he says I am a nympho, and that men his age just can't do it once a day. I know this is bull shit since he is not the only man his age I know or have ever been with , but is there a certain age when men start to slow down with their sexual needs, wants and desires? I think I am in my prime and he is in his middle age thing or something, but the sex is great every other day.
Men reach their sexual peak at around 18 to 20 years of age. That's the age when they walk around with automatic hard-ons, even WITHOUT provocation. As they get older they start to need more and more mental and visual stimulation. At 36 you'll probably find that some pre-game warm-ups will work wonders on him. Try talking dirty to him throughout the day, or if possible walk around in your lingerie and pumps while doing housework in front of him. And if you don't find it offensive -- watch some porn together (that ALWAYS works).
My dad is 50 and I'm pretty sure he gets it all the time, he hasn't remarried yet. Some men lose their drive, but the once a day thing is bull shit... now if he had said 5+ that would be different.
All guys are different...his body maybe very well be wearing out...you may have worked him to hard hahaha its not bs...he may just want a break...just give him time.
If you are getting sex every other day, I'd say stop complaining about it or questioning why you are not getting more, but try to get the best out of the ones that you get. Men are at their prime in their 20s, unlike women who reach their prime in 30s and up.
My husband is mid-50s. He can and will do it every day (or more than once a day). Pretty much whenever I am in the mood, he's ready to go. So I'm guessing it depends a lot on the person (and, reading the other posts, sounds like I'm a lucky girl!)
I guess it varies by person. Though, men are at their prime in their twenties I think, while women are at their prime near their 40's, so it kinda makes sense. So, he may be wearing down a bit. Also, things that bother him, like maybe if he's having a midlife crisis, that could affect it too. Hope that helped!
My boyfriend is going on 23 and won't give it to me every day. He says he wasn't made like that. I think it's crazy his age he should be like a new teenager or something. Men are so weird. I have this friend that is married to a 50 year old guy and she said they do it like their teenagers all over it just like being 16. . I wish I had that lol. It's normal I guess for guys to be all messed up. He's finally starting to give in though. He would only give it to me like maybe 6 time's a month and now this past week it's been every night. Their crazy that's all I can say.
I'm 22, my boyfriend is 30. I am having the same problem as well. Although we are only together once a month. For me, its a different situation. There is a time where male's do slow down and can't produce as much as they used to. My boyfriend always tells me "I'm not 20 anymore" meaning he used to be able to have sex all he wanted. Now it's not working like that for him anymore. Something I can suggest, go to sex shops, buy toys he can use on you!! that way he can pleasure you still and maybe that can turn him on. OR try using the toys yourself.. That may want him to jump right on!
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That's the same thing with my boyfriend, I always want sex like at least 1 or 2 times a day but he does it once and he thinks that I'm a sex freak too!! Maybe they get tired or something who knows but I could have sex all day. I know how you feel!
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