Should I give him a threesome?

I think if you just met and talked about this early, I would say yes, but later in the relationship, no! It would ruin the relationship! If you were both curious early, and that is the way both of you were, go for it, but there isn't anything good that would come out of it.

A threesome can be delicious poison. I've been down this road four times (before I was married), and I can tell you that all were fun, but all ended in awkward situations as well. The last time I did this in '96, it was REALLY bad; I don't even want to get into that.

Nonetheless, My advice to you is this:

1. Make sure there is an understanding BEFOREHAND, don't assume anything. Remember Assume is the same thing as Ass You Me. If it's just for one night, that's one thing. And it can't be with an Ex, with a Crush, etc. That's really bad news

2. No "close firends", either. This is a major train-wreck in the making. Trust me. Been there, done that. Lost a good job over it, too.

3. No unsafe sex. No exceptions. Trust me on this, too. (Knew a friend who went down this road, almost paid for it with her life).

Other than that, if everyone's cool, and everyone get's off, go for it. Have fun. One day you'll be 136, like me, and all work, no fun. Lotsa money, but lotsa responsibilities too. LOL

A 3some is something you do with a girlfriend you don't care about. If he's your fiance, then absolutely not. It will change your relationship. Having sex with other people will never bring you two closer together, and will never make you a stronger couple. If you two really are happy, then why would you need someone else?

If the guy is not happy with you and wants a threesome that means he is using you for his benefit. Dump him there are plenty of men out there willing to be with one beautiful lady.

Some things are better off left as a fantasy. Ask yourself this: will you honestly feel comfortable watching your fiance have sex with another woman? I've seen good, solid, relationships fall apart because it creates a mistrust and all kinds of issues that I don't think you want to start a marriage off with. Threesomes are better if there aren't any emotional ties to the people involved. I had one with two of my friends and it was an amazing and fun experience, but we didn't love each other in that way so it was easy to not get jealous. Good luck with your decision and congrats on your engagement! I hope it all works out for you two!