18. I was very popular in high school, played on practically every sports team, was part of student government and in lots of clubs. I didn't have time for girlfriends in high school so it wasn't unitl I went off to uni that I had sex
Nineteen, with my wife. It was completing, and I am so glad we waited. It was the most precious and intimate time we had experienced together (and we've known each other since we were 13).
I'm still waiting, partially by choice now, but that's because I got comfortable with being "undesirable" in high school. I had a lot of things going for me in terms of looks, smarts, talents, heart, but what I lacked was guts, so 99% of girls just looked right by me or dropped me right into the friend zone. With the 1% it was always really close, but I always messed it up, and we'd end up as friends, which is good.
I'm much more comfortable and confident with myself now and I can tell girls really dig that, but I feel like I still want to find that special 1 out of that 1%.
Some of my friends laugh at me for this, but I think it's just the best way to go for me.
I did it when I was 17. Was with my girlfriend for 9 months and we just built up to it over that time. Was a nice experience, very glad I did it 'properly' and didn't throw it away. This whole 'I wanna just get it over with' attitude is horrible haha
dropped that ball at 14, I'm now 17 and haven't done it since, do I regret having done it? yeah, but only because I did it with a girl who decided to cheat on me with a close friend. Does that mean I won't do it again? HELL NO!
it wasn't worth it when I did do it anyway, I was all paranoid her parents would come home, and we didn't use a condom so we spent almost 2 weeks freaking out until she had her period
I am still a virgin.. why? well, first of all.. I am not popular with women at all really. If I were and I had a greater chance, I would still probably wait until I was fairly confident that this girl was right.
I was 17 and it was with a woman who was at least 20 years older than me. I don't regret it but I don't look back with any particular fondness either. At the time I was just extremely horny and desperate to have sex just to see what all the fuss was about..
Wow, currently under 18 and Virgin are dead even. I'm 24 f*ckin years old and I'm still a virgin. Its not that surprising though I guess. Mainly because I don't want a disease or to lose it to some drunken whore. I may be a dude but that doesn't mean I don't deserve a special occasion with someone I really love. That's just how I want it to be, but its hard... they're turning quite the lovely shade of blue. :)
You call girls whores? I can see why you never get laid. Seriously, learn to respect and love women, it will be good for you. - 5 months ago
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No. I call whores whores. Learn to read and understand. I have more respect for women than you could ever realize, but only for those that deserve it. - 5 months ago
So whores are not girls, is that what you are saying?
I think I know your type. You think a woman should "pure" and only have sex with their boyfriend who they will live happily with every day after. But let me tell you this: Girls LOVE sex and there is nothing wrong with it. It is only natural and healthy. If you can't respect that you have no respect for women.
I think it is sad that women are being called "whores" for not being sexually repressed. - 5 months ago
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Hm, okay. I WOULD say you have a messed up view of reality but, obvious troll is OBVIOUS. So good day. Everything below this comment will be disregarded. Thanks for playing. - 5 months ago
Hey, you will find someone. Just form my experience, if you know any more affluent people or any of your parents friends who are doctors, dentists, lawyers, business owners and such and are religious people, I would go fro their daughters as far as a relationship leading to marriage. I have and could see myself being happy for many years with any of them. I have noticed a slight association between classy girls and virgin girls and the same with guys. Of course there is how religious they are. - 4 months ago
Seems that most girls get it over with under 18. I know I am gonna take some heat for this, but I think it's because girls tend to have shallow souls and they are overflowing by that age. Guys on the other hand may have to experience all manner of trials and tribulations, constantly breaking and re-making their selves. And while this is happening, sexuality is largely out of the question. But this whole post is totally autobiographical.
Lol "constantly breaking and re-making their selves". girls don't have to do that?! PLEASE we are broken by other girls all the time. - 6 months ago
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Females mature faster because they don't have much of a soul to develop. They're beyond shallow, generally. I make an exception for an intellectually-curious woman, however.
And Hypnotik -- I am delighted to hear that that is the case! - 6 months ago
I don't know what girls you know.. but my best friend is still a virgin at 21, my room mate still at 25, an ex room mate still at 23, and many other girls I know.. I just don't feel like listing every last one of them. I never had a boyfriend till 18, mostly because all the guys I knew only seemed to WANT sex.. and that was not something I was willing to give to them at that time. I know more guys from high school being sexually "loud" than most girls I knew in high school or college now. - 6 months ago
Furthermore, on the case of being soul-less, that is truly a cold stereotype. I don't know how one can prove the point of having soul, but I know that I've wept many tears over the cruelty of a cheating boyfriend as well as a boyfriend who quote, "couldn't love me, and didn't think he could love anyone for that matter." That, may I continue, was the one that had my virginity...truly heartbreaking, as I loved him very much. I am a poet, writer and artist, and my soul is most definitely present. - 6 months ago
Wow razzlin, that was intense. I hope you aren't offended by cjwright's comment because he has obviously had very different experiences than you. Girls typically ARE kinda shallow, but I think most people are when they're teenagers anyways. Anyway, I'm sorry about your experience with the guy who took your virginity. He sounds like a dick. - 6 months ago
I think it is unfair to generalize, and I am offended. I have had experience with some assholes, yes, but I don't say that all men are shallow, or assholes, because of that- I've met a collection of sweet men, as well as sweet women. Unfortunately I think it is perhaps the shallow lot that don't care and therefore make their presence much more loud and clear, while many of the nicer ones tend to not want to make as many obnoxious waves. It's a theory anyway. - 6 months ago
Here is the deal: Getting laid is easy for a young girl. She can be completely f***ed up in her mind but her body is hot so guys wants to f*** her anyways.
Young guys on the other hand are usually very insecure and don't have the balls to get sexual with a girl. It is hard for a young guy to get laid. If I had the chance I would probably have f***ed one new girl every week since I was 13, but I had to wait until I was 21.
Emberly, girls getting laid earlier has nothing to do with maturity. - 5 months ago
I'm 18 and still waiting however I been going out with my boyfriend for alomost 9 months now, we havnt seen each other in 4 months, Yeah so that's how I wanna lose it.
When he picks me and my dad up from the airport when I go to vesit him soon, I wanna kiss him and hug him nothing more because my daddy gonna be there. Then we gonna go eat all togther after that drive to his apartment and since my dad sleeps really early we gonna stay up cuddling in the leaving room. kissing each other and touching each other then he takes my shirt off a little pit later my pants is off then his trying to finger me I wanna moun so bad but I can't because we don't wanna wake my dad up since his sleeping in the next room. Then I give him a head, then suck on his neck Next thing I know his trying stick his penis inside me, I try to stop him because its kinda hurting me but at the same time I want it inside me so badddddddddddddd I wanna scream so bad but we don't wanna make any noise. then he finally stick his BIG FAT **** in me while am sucking on his neck (and let me tell you it hurts soo bad) BUT I LOVE IT and can't get inof I want more and more and morrreeee.
i was 16 when I lost mine and I lost it to my best friend at the time. we are not close anymore...i lost it to him on his 19th birthday and we hooked up for a couple months but I called it off when I found out he had messed around wit 3 of my good friends. my first time was actually sweet. I was at his house chilling wit some friends and we planned on having sex so he took me upstairs and there was candles everywhere. I thought he was trying to hard but we ended up having sex and after it was over he held me all night
mine was horrible. I feel in love with him. he knew that. so I slept with him. and his girlfriend of about a year entered the picture (Y). naturally it was ALL my fault...apparently.
I was 22 and my boyfriend and I had been going out about 5 months. We both lost it to each other. I was always under the impression I would lose it when I was married, but I just met the right person and don't regret it at all.
I'm still a virgin, and I would like it to happen when I am ready and with the right guy; aka: someone that I can trust. I worry a whooooole lot about pregnancy, I will prob lose my virginity after I graduate from college and find a good, stable job :]
I'm 21 and still a virgin. I just have to see where things go but I definitely want it to be in a bed, for sure :P and with a guy I'm in love with and in a relationship with. For at least 6 months. It's kind of hard to be general since there's a guy I'm really into right now...it probably wouldn't take him 6 months to get into my pants. Probably not even 6 days, lol.
I feel like such a slut for saying that :P but I'd only consider having sex before 6 months with him. Never cared much about dating anyway until I met him.
I'm 19 and just lost my virginity a few weeks ago. My boyfriend of a year, Mike, is also 19 but I was not his first. Oh well! Anyways it was quite enjoyable. We took it slow and used lots of lube so it didn't hurt too much, which was good. We did it at Mike's house when his parents weren't home and continue to do that lol
I was 18 and made the adult decision to have sex with my boyfriend at the time, who was also my first love. I went to Planned Parenthood before hand and got on the pill, paid for it myself. I wanted to be mature about it, otherwise I don't think I would have been ready
Well I was 12, he was 16 it was with one of my brothers friends, and I would send him all these these sexy letters! So one day me and my brother was locked out of the house and he asked me you still want to have sex. I said yeah, and did it on the playground. But it didn't hurt that much like I thought it would. But I wish I had waited
I'm a virgin, however I would want to do something freaky haha. I would want to do it at some strange place aka like in a changing room, or do something kinda rough, or something like off of mr and mrs smith but not beating each other up.
I'm 21 and still one...though I might lose it soon...to this guy whom I really like and may be the one...so far we're just friends with some benefits though and we've talked about us going all the way someday...I might wait til he actually makes a commitment to me though [he's still not sure and ready yet]...we've tried to come up with places where we'd do it [he suggested a motel but we both don't have much money], probably in my bed when my parents aren't home.
i was 15. I had been with the guy for over a year and thought he was the one. no, he wasn't the one, but we still keep in contact and I wouldn't change the way I lost it for the world.
I was 16. I had a crush on an older (like 18 years old) guy and thought that was the way to get him. He picked me up at my friend's house late at night then we snuck into his house. It was awkward and felt nothing but pain... But it's been good since then :)
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