I recently started dating this guy who I really like and we get along amazingly . We totally connect sexually and intellectually
There's just this one problem HE LOVES FEET ! I on the other hand hate feet to the point that the thought of someone even coming close to my foot with there mouth seriously freaks me out
Is there a way for us to compromise in this situation or is it an all or nothing kind of thing ? I am all for trying new things to please my partner but I have no clue how to get over this
I know this seems like a strange question but he REALLY likes feet so I'm kinda at a loss on what I can do to be more open about it . Any help would be great
Well, at least he loves you. If I were the girl, I would offer "You may take pictures to look at later, but not in front of me." like that. I happen to love feet. Do not let this fetish ruin your relationship. My last girl friend of mine broke up not because of my foot fetish, but for other reasons.
I dunno.its just damn HOT! That's the perks of summer.girls wearing flip flops or whatnot.and believe it or not, I do 'grade' girls feet if I see them. Haha! A simple scale of 1-10 or 'Off the charts' ;) I'm pretty subtle about it because I don't want to be 'caught' checking their feet out!
Is it really a foot fetish or does he just enjoy that part of your body ? In definition, having a foot fetish means that he cannot achieve orgasm without some contact with the foot/feet .
My girlfriend has beautiful feet and I love to massage them and even suck on her toes . She enjoys it too . But it's not a fetish .
If it is a fetish with him, then you will have to come to some kind of compromise with him or he will be having a particular desire for you suppressed . It is totally harmless and maybe with time you will also enjoy it . My girlfriend wasn't totally into it when we were first together (it tickled and was a little "ewww" for her) but went with the flow and now it's just another place I pay attention to and we both enjoy it .
Talk to him about it . Generally when people have a fetish it is quite important to them as otherwise they may feel like they are suppressing their true desires .
As for compromise, maybe you both can stop at the ankle . :) Kidding aside, you need to talk to him and find out how important it is to him . If he can't live without it then perhaps you can get a bit more comfortable with the thought but take it slow to make you comfortable and not involve the feet every time you guys get intimate .
In other words, let him indulge in your feet once in a while but he need to be clear that it isn't for you so it is really once-in-a-while . Or get him into a shoe fetish and then just give him a pair of your stiletto's to go crazy with . :)
Lol I have no clue about the foot fetish either . Have tried to figure it out . I am not anti girl feet if she takes care of it and everything . But no, I don't get turned on by seeing an ankle or a foot . But if you get a good answer, I'd love to hear how someone has a foot fetish, lol .
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