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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 8 months ago
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My boyfriend is coming over Saturday and we're just going to hang out and do some stuff like bjs, showering and anal sex.....neither of us want to get me pregnant. We're both virgins......do you think I should buy birth control pills or will I be alright?

Update: And cuddling too.    8 months ago

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
I don t recommend you birth control pills just use a condom and tell him not to cum in your cat practice anal or if your ready for anal but if your a virgin I do not recommend you for a first time my girl was scared but she want it it because she was curious then she didn't want to do it for a while so just do both oral and you'll be fine
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
You're both virgins, but you want to have anal sex ? Interesting .
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Question Asker We're not ready for kids, and I don't want to risk that and we're only 18-so we're too young for actual sex anyhow . Plus he's always had a thing for my butt lol :p - 8 months ago
Answerer Too young for sex, but not anal. Still not understanding, lol. Are you trying to keep your "virgin" status? - 8 months ago
Question Asker Maybe.....maybe not - 8 months ago
Answerer Lol you don't really sound like you really know what you want. So why exactly are you doing it? - 8 months ago
Question Asker Well I love him, and I'm not ready for "sex-sex" and I like going on adventures and trying new things . So it would be fun, plus there's no gain without pain . - 8 months ago
Answerer Yeah, I think your view of sex is a little off . And I would consider anal sex, sex . But that's me . Are you sure you're 18 ? - 8 months ago
Question Asker Yep I was born in Sept . 1989 . And if it's sex like you call . Bring it on - 8 months ago
Answerer Wow, ok. - 8 months ago

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Quackpotty (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
Been said a couple of times about the pill, but here it is again - it's too late . Use a condom, or wait until you're fully ready on the pill to do this . In fact, use a condom then too - see my comment to AJtogo .
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Ok well . This sounds like a band camp question . But on the serious note, if your not doing vaginal sex, then you should be alright, but just keep his sperm away from your vagina (I'm going to use medical terms in this statement) . I mean even if there is anal sex or hand jobs or blow jobs and whatever else you can think of doing, if there is just the excitement and air between your vagina and his sperm then there's always a chance . But like a lot of the other people have said, the pill will work after 7 days normally, but to regulate your period you will need to be on it for a few months to get the feel for that one . But just make sure you have him wrap it up, because really . Loosing a little bit of feeling is better than a life time of raising a child and grandchildren .

I am proof that condoms do not always work, my daughter was conceived when I was wearing a condom (no name brand) .
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Question Asker Is there such thing as a day after pill ? If so does that work ? - 8 months ago

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AJtogo (Age:Over 45)      When: 8 months ago
I'm sorry . But are you kidding me ! ? You're in the 18 to 24 range . This is like an under 18 question . And, the casual approach to hanging out with some BJs, a little anal, some showering . Lol . Where was your type when I was younger:)

Anyway . To your question . Too late to start the pill . You should be on the pill for a couple of months to have your periods regulated before it's dependable . As long as you're not having unprotected vaginal sex then there is no worry over pregnancy .
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Question Asker I'm odd - 8 months ago
Quackpotty Not true about the vaginal sex . There's something called a 'splash pregnancy' where a little semen goes around the vaginal area and still manages to cause fertilization . Happens in heavy petting, but can happen with anal if some semen leaks and enters the vagina which is close by . Not common, but possible . - 8 months ago
Question Asker Thank you ! - 8 months ago

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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
With only six days left, you'll not have time to properly get on the pill . You'll need to use condoms, to be on the safe side .
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LadyLearner (Age:18 to 24)      When: 20 days ago
Wow. Hold on. First of all even if you have anal sex you can still get pregnant. This is really gross but its true. Semen from your anus (asshole excuse my french) can leak into your vagina and potentially get you pregnant. Your anus can rip and tear during sex especially if you aren't relaxed. You think he is a virgin so you assume stds aren't an issue but you are at higher risk of an std if you have anal sex because there may be more tearing. In fact, I have read articles where gynecologists (woman's doctor) are completely against it . yes I have friends who have had it and its is possible but only if you are really relaxed but honestly I personally am against it. Plus do you want to have that kinda sex for your first time? And are you sure you want to lose your virginity to this person (even though technical vaginal intercouse counts as virginity would you still consider yourself a virgin after this)?

If you do have anal sex I definitely would get a condom. by the way you may have to go to a doctor to get prescription birth control pills though they will protect you against sexually transmited infections.
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green-sun (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Haha. That's sick why you would choose anal over vaginal. Sex is a natural thing. And if you get birth control go with the nuva ring because there are less hormones (which, if taking the pill and shot, which have more hormones, they may alter the way you feel and think, meaning making you a cranky bitch) haha. Your boyfriend is going to have shit dick
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Condoms are the second most effective method of birth control . The first most effective--abstinence . The only way you can be 100% sure you won't get pregnant is not to have sex . However, condoms are still ALMOST just as safe . Still, they've been known to fail . Unless you use more than one at a time, maybe ? =P
It's good that you want to be safe, though . Kudos to you on that note . =)
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