I'd do it . From personal experience, some women can be "too tight . " It's a royal pain to get started .
I imagine the conversation with other couples may go like, "Hun, we need to use this lube, ok ? " "Hur hur hur, wha ? Oh ok . " the whole time he is thinking Lube = Sex .
Not an issue . Some women do not secrete as much natural lube as others and need that little extra to reduce friction . Guys can often equate this to the girl not being excited enough, which only holds a small amount of truth . If a girl is really aroused then the amount of natural lube can increase, just as a guy's erection can be harder when he's really excited .
If she asks for it, then use it . She doesn't want it to be painful for her .
I'd wonder whether she was really enjoying sex as usually there tends to be enough natural lubricant... However, if she were to say that she is on some meds or has some condition, I wouldn't really mind but it has to be up front and not in the middle-of-sex type of situation.
Lube is always good . It makes things different . Easier access, and it feels nice on the skin . Slippery and wet is always a good thing to have . Its fun . Have you used lube ?
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