Hey there is this girl in my one class and she has kind of had the reputation of being a somewhat whore . I really do believe she is really nice and very attractive . In class she always makes flirtatious comments to me and always tries to hold my hand but a lot of my friends and other guys say I should hook up with her . Problem is I've never had sex before and she is really experienced and wouldn't it be bad to lose your virginity to a (slut) ? Please help
The question about losing your virginity to a "slut" is really your choice . But just remember that the first time for most people is supposed to be special and with someone you care about, I don't know if you think that way thou . There is only a one time, and that time is supposed to be special because you will always remember who you slept with the first time . I personally do not think you should sleep with someone you don't care about, specially if that someone is already a "slut" to you . You are still young so you have time to look for someone that is worthy to you ; someone who would stick around with you for a while, but don't do it just because your peers are pressuring you into it, you might regret it later .
It wouldn't necessarily be bad. . BUT, keep in mind a couple of things:
1. If you do get her in bed, you cannot expect that she will want to be your exclusive girlfriend.
2. If you don't have real feelings for the girl, it isn't advisable for you to go to bed with her, because you might get bored of her really fast if it turns out that she is someone that you wouldn't care to keep seeing.
So, think carefully about it before you decide to do it.
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