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When talking to your guy friends about sex you've had...

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why-so-serious (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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how detailed do you go into it?

just curious, aha. I had an ex who told his guy friends EVERYTHING, even after I'd told him I really didn't want them to know very much. high school guys are jerks, I suppose.


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7F0Y3NP      When: 28 days ago
A high school girl talking to high school guys a bout the sex she's had, regardless of details, is just like trying to turn them on(especially if they're virgins).
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imin34
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imin34      When: A month ago
i never go into much detail at all with my friends. I just say I have sex or I had oral and that stuff. but I know my girlfriend goes into HELLA DETAIL I hate it! just because all her friends are like virgins and I just have a weird feeling about all that. but I got a big penis so if she tells them that, then my Rep just goes up too. so its all good.
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Anonymous User      When: 2 months ago
yes good thing you know now that high school guys are jerks which is why in my opinion most high school relationships are a waste of time and just for arm candy!
but for your question guys do it in explicit detail and it also depends on how much of a jerk he is. I'm not a jerk but I think it would like this. man me and my girl were going at it last night man I was fu*kin her so hard! she had so many orgasms! she was begging for more and I just kept Fu*kin her and more exaggeration
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Evangelina214 Lol.
Nice uh,story.A lot of guys love to exaggerate.Then the girl will come and tell everyone else a complete different story - 2 months ago
Answerer Yea the girls will prob say some thing like I looked deep into his eyes and made love and such lol - 2 months ago
Evangelina214 LOl.I've heard some girls say that,then I've heard some girls bash the guy and uh,fix his exaggeration on his measurements - 2 months ago
Answerer Measurements lmao
if the guy gets stupid he'll fix the girls breast measurements as well lmao - 2 months ago

rawr123
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rawr123      When: 2 months ago
yep that sounds like a high school guy. I've had friends they just go as simple as to say they had sex, others go completely into detail and tell everything that happened. It depends on the guy
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cun7n1nja
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cun7n1nja      When: A month ago
It depends. My guy friends, for the most part, don't go into detail unless the story they're telling me is funny. The details are vital to the story, in that case. =P Otherwise it's usually just general information like their first time having sex with a new girlfriend or something, or that they did indeed hook up with some chick last night, etc.

I do have ONE friend though who always goes into detail, every single time. But it's because he gets off on trying to make people uncomfortable, haha. It works on most of our friends and they get all weirded out. I've learned to just laugh at him.
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
i will just say that we had sex and that's about it..i think the rest is personal, just between me and the guy.
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Anonymous User      When: 2 months ago
I only say the good things about it. I would never have sex then talk about he bad sh*t. I'm so good in bed that I would love my man to brag to his friends as long as he made me sound like a queen, but we both know what he'll do is make it sound dirty and like he wrecked me.. Guys are just such pigs, it's very unfortunate..

You need to punish him for it. No sex for a week! He deserves it!
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versusxiii      When: 2 months ago
All the more reason to wait on having sex after high school. You have to just realize that everyone is maturing in those years, not matured. But even more so than that, you have to be careful with who you are sleeping with because you are the one that looks like the slut, not him. Guys can do 5 women in one day and that's considered being lucky while a girl having sex with 5 men in 5 MONTHS makes them look loose.

But there's a reason for the double standard, to me. Women are the ones who bare the bulk of the responsibility with sex. We catch diseases easier, we're the ones who get pregnant, we have the children, etc. That's why men naturally chase us, not the other way around.

If this guy didn't even have enough respect for you to at least not tell them every sorted detail when you specifically asked him not to (other than the fact that he was in high school), then you really need to think about the guys you are choosing to be with.

Good luck girl!
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TropicallyYours
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TropicallyYours      When: 2 months ago
If he's being a chatter box even after you've asked him to stop, he doesn't respect you. He could even exaggerate on the details probably cause he feels he didn't do a good "performance". Be glad he is an ex.
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Evangelina214
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Evangelina214      When: 2 months ago
Dude,i have a lot of guy friends(I'm get along with guys better) and some of them will just mention they've had sex,whereas some will go into deep details,I'm talking about things that just shouldn't be mentioned and are just private.But I notice that when it's a hookup or some random girl,they'll tell all,but if it's a "serious" girlfriend they keep it private
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