K this is for the girls, do you like a guy who is open about talking about sex and stuff or is that a major turn off? I've talked to some girls and within a couple hrs were talking bout sex and stuff, I don't have a problem with talking about my sex life and when I talk it usually opens them up to talking, so does this work for you girls?
I think it depends on who you talk too, some people are shy about it or may think it's inappropriate. But for me and if I know the guy, I'd be fine talking about it. (um not with family members or closely related people, because I just don't wanna know about THAT!)
As long as you're being honest and open and aren't doing it to try to impress, then it's absolutely fine. The only time I have a problem with it is when guys try to use this kind of talk as a way to allude to their prowess in the bedroom. As far as I'm concerned, the proof of the pudding's in the tasting, and guys who talk big are usually just talking.
Yeah I'm not gonna lie about my sex life and my tendencies, because if something does happen they find out and you look like an idiot I'm a very honest person so I don't think ill have that problem - 8 months ago
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ABSOLUTELY! I don't think that it's a turn off at all. It just means that you are mature enough to talk about this topic and we girls actually enjoy listening to the boy views. It's good to hear about another gender perspective on sex talks.
I'm not a girl, but there is something I can tell you. Many girls like it when you talk to THEM about sex. But, your girlfriend doesn't usually like it when you talk to YOUR FRIENDS about the sexual encounters you have with her.
So, if you limit it to just her, she probably won't have a problem with it.
Do you get into detail about it? Does your friends ask you about your man's size? Its shape? Etc? And do you tell them this?. I always was curious...
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