Two weeks ago I lost my virginity to a guy who I've been crushing on. We had always flirt with each other and told that we liked each other. When it was over, I felt no emotions, no attachment like I was told I would feel. But I'm confused on the way he's acting now. We no longer flirt, when he made a flirtatious comment one night and I responded, he changed the subject. We still call/text each other all the time, but now the subjects are more serious. Was he not satisfied with me, and now he's trying to stop the flirting to make sure nothing else happens sexually between us, or what?
BTW, he didn't know I was a virgin.
Update: ETA: I'm not sure he even got off. Maybe I'm self conscious due to my lack of experience. He said he was gonna cum but afterwards there was nothing dripping out like I heard would happen.
8 months ago
Update: I was also on my period, and put a tampon in right after, would this affect the "dripping" afterwards?
8 months ago
Well he might have just not been fully satisfied with the experience, and due to the fact that he assumed you weren't a virgin, he might figure that you just aren't great at sex.
But the upside is that he is nice enough to keep in touch with you. You might consider telling him that you weren't great in bed because you were a virgin. Then maybe he will understand why it went the way that it did, and he could consider giving it another try.
This is a good sign. The fact that he continues to make contact with you and your talks are more deep means he didn't treat you as a booty call. As someone else suggested, keep moving forward with him.
You would know if he got off -- trust me on this. Let's assume he didn't, and let's also assume that is part of what's going on here. Again, just be patient, keep the conversation going, and see what happens.
Hmmm. Did you give him any reason to think you weren't a virgin? Does he have any reason to feel you weren't totally honest with him? And what do you mean when you say that "now the subjects are more serious"?
I told him it had been awhile. He could tell I was tense, but I made it seem like I was scared we would get caught because we weren't in a private place, and could have easily been walked in on.
I mean, we talk about our lives more now than before. Probably "more serious" isn't the right words, but the conversations aren't like they were. - 8 months ago
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Okay. Not that surprised that conversations with this guy "aren't like they were" -- things obviously changed two weeks ago. The good news is that you are communicating often and deeply with each other. If I were you, I'd keep doing that, and just see where things go. Don't push too hard, or worry too much. It's only been two weeks, hun. Give it time, so both of you can sort out your feelings, and figure out where (if anywhere) your relationship is going. - 8 months ago
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