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Am I slutty for just not caring?

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SandraSpider (Age:Under 18)     When: 6 months ago
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my best male friend (he's 15, I'm 16) is kinda sexually frustrated, cause he has absolutely no luck with girls. some time ago he asked me whether I would borrow him a used thong of mine, and I didn't think much about. I just went straight to my room, took off the thong that I've worn all day and gave it to him. I just told him that I want it back when he's done and that he must not make it dirty in any way. about two weeks later he returned it to me and was very thankful and said it was awesome.

i don't know, if a guy I've known since I was a child and I really trust and who's a super nice (though very nerdy) guy, wants to sniff a piece of cloth that's been between my butt cheeks all day and bring himself to orgasm with this scent, then I don't really mind. and hey, I definitely cheered him up and brought a little light into his sexual frustration. but I suppose everybody else would think bad about my attitude. what do you say?


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jacquesvol
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jacquesvol      When: 4 days ago
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Question Asker ...? - 3 days ago
Answerer Nerd code for very good or so XD - 2 days ago

da5id
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da5id      When: 5 months ago
well you know they actually have vending-machines for used panties in japan...
so I guess you may be simply ahead of your time ;D
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iamranga
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iamranga      When: 5 months ago
There's a saying somewhere in the world that goes something like this:
Don't give a man fish, teach him how to fish' or something like that.
I think it was thoughtful of you but it would've been better in the long term if you set him up with someone.
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jopes
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jopes      When: 6 months ago
That was actually surprisingly nice more than anything. Obviously he was having a bit of trouble, essentially all you did was help him out. Nah definitely not a bad attitude at all. Apathy can be good at times.
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cjwright79
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cjwright79      When: 6 months ago
You are a saint, plain and simple.
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beefpatrol
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beefpatrol      When: 6 months ago
I think you have a great attitude. If more women had your attitude, the entire human race would be much happier.
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dave216
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dave216      When: 6 months ago
I don't see you as slutty at all. You sound like a very good friend. He is lucky to have a friend like you who he can share such an intimate desire with and who will happily grant his request. You know there is a whole realm of non intercourse experiences two friends like you and he can explore if you like. He would seem an ideal person for you to explore with. :)
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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
What to say, I'm kind confused about what to think of it all. Nothing bad though but I have to say I think he got a weird turn on like "why smell panty when you could try finding new ways to relieve your sexual frustration". You seam to be an awesome friend and no I don't think your more slutty then the next because of that... Just wash them before putting them on will you ^^; what you also should do is tell your friend to get his "homework" done (what females like etc...) because I think he desperately needs a gf
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ilovelegs
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ilovelegs      When: 6 months ago
I don't think bad about your attitude because you helped him out. I don't get where you even think someone would consider you having acted slutty. Of course what you did was a little sexy but in a fun/nice way. BTW, smelling is one of our five senses so he used that one to satisfy a frustration he had. Smelling can excite a person in many ways including bringing great pleasure. Exotic perfumes are very expensive for that purpose. You should have charged him. lol! j/kkk! Too bad more frustrated people don't use something as simple as that to satisfy a problem they have rather than resort to more drastic measures.
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Question Asker So true, thanks. - 6 months ago

fastandfurious
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fastandfurious      When: 6 months ago
Yayyy for you! You're the kind of girl that there should be many, many more of. You have an awesome attitude! I like it! :-)
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Samanosuke47
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Samanosuke47      When: 6 months ago
Your awesome.

It's a good thing that he feels comfortable asking you for such an odd favor. And no your not slutty for not caring.

Even though I think that's a little weird... but hey to each his own. lol

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tamc1337
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tamc1337      When: 6 months ago
I want you for a friend
seriously. you knew this guy for like forever, you helped him out. that shows how close you guys are. if I had a friend who asked for my underwear, id be happy to oblige.

you rock.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
No, that's nice of you. Plus it's kind of funny I think girls and guys smell differently... I have a housemate who is a girl, and when I open the door of the dryer, I can notice the difference of smell when it's my clothes and when it's her clothes. Her clothes smell like when I have sex with a girl. My clothes smell like when I'm masturbating... lol so I think if you can give him a sense of how women are then... that's cool of you! I'm sure he appreciates it.
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Question Asker Thanks! - 6 months ago

FrozenDonkeyWheel
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FrozenDonkeyWheel      When: 6 months ago
This is so obviously fake. Basically no teenage girl would do something like that, and the few that would would not come onto a website like that and talk about, especially not in even remotely proper grammar. And she definitely would not have described the whole panties-sniffing in such excruciating detail. Also, I have seen the picture this person used as their avatar on multiple other websites.
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Question Asker You're talking BS, that picture is me. - 6 months ago
Answerer Don't lie. :/ - 6 months ago
JohnE Then y the hell do you care. Just don't comment - 6 months ago
Answerer What? I care because this person is a fake, and idiots like you aren't going to realize it unless I tell you. Although I guess you still don't believe me. I don't even know why I'm bothering to try and help you. - 6 months ago
JohnE If its not real no one gives a fuc its just another story. At least its something funny that made some people laugh for a bit. - 6 months ago
cuteflirtygirl Well I'll tell you what!! I absolutely believe her because I've had mine taken more than once. Any guy that likes going down on a girl would love getting their hands on a girl's panties if they considered the girl hot. My boyfriend took mine before we started going together and we have the best relationship ever. - 6 months ago

 
Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
A bit, yes it does.
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JohnE
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JohnE      When: 6 months ago
Hahaha that's a pretty funny story in my opinion and not that doesn't make you a slut.
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Rainbows What the hell? How is this in any way not slutty? - 6 months ago
Answerer She isn't opening her legs saying hey I'm free for you to fuc me. - 6 months ago
Rainbows There are about a zillion ways to be a slut. That is only one of them. This is also one of them. How the f*** is this not slutty? - 6 months ago
Answerer Cuz she didn't really do anything to the guy. And dam your aggressive aren't you. - 6 months ago
Rainbows You don't have to actually do something to a guy to be slutty. For example, if I masturbated on a webcam and let lots of guys watch, wouldn't you call me slutty, even though I didn't actually do anything to the guys? - 6 months ago
Rainbows And, yeah, I get aggressive late at night for some reason. I don't know why. Sorry. - 6 months ago
Answerer No I wouldn't call you slutty...cuz the guy is technically the slut but people think that because he's a guy he can't be a slut for some reason. Its stupid guys can't be sluts only girls can makes no seance. And its ok. - 6 months ago
yannick Slutty has a bad connotation, there's nothing bad about this! to be a slut you need to have very little respect for yourself so you just throw your body out there for anyone to look or touch or sleep with. that's slutty, and it's bad. how would what she did be slutty in any way? enlighten us... - 6 months ago
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 5 months ago
Can anybody else see that is girl is putting up ridiculously provocative questions to get attention ...eh?
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stefaniaa
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stefaniaa      When: 6 months ago
I wouldn't say it's "slutty," but I'm not sure it's the greatest approach. I mean there's always other ways for him to go about doing things. If he were to end of telling someone, you'd probably end up embarrassed, so I suppose it's a 'to each his own' type of situation, but I think you should deff think about the things that could result from doing stuff that next time. But in answering the question at hand, no, it's not slutty.
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ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy      When: 6 months ago
its not really slutty but I probably wouldn't tell anyone I did that.

it's kind of a nice gesture that you did. but why would you ask for it back. let him keep it. seriously that thong probably has saliva and seminal juices all over it ew lol
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Question Asker No, I told him not to ejaculate into them. and he didn't. - 6 months ago

Evangelina214
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Evangelina214      When: 6 months ago
No,I don't consider you slutty,cause 1,I don't like using that word,it's sexist,plus,Um,you didn't really do anything but help him out,I mean you could have done what some girls would have done and just been a tease and then not finished it.But smelling is a sense,scent,visual,vocal sounds are a turn on.It gives the scent of a female,and that in turn is a turn on
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cuteflirtygirl
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cuteflirtygirl      When: 6 months ago
I say you're an especially cool girl that has great friends. I love your attitude towards that and how without hesitation you helped him out. I read on here where everyone else does all kinds of sh*t and gets away with it, and what you did sounds like so much fun and to a guy extremely sexy. Congratulations! Girls need to know that most guys would find a girl's panties that she wore all day the sexiest things they could get their hands on. Keep it up. But he must have really trusted you to even ask. Most guys would have just taken them if there was a chance.
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Princess92
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Princess92      When: 6 months ago
well I'm not that kind of girl who judges ppl.
well I'm opinion you helped him out!
you help out a friend! and if that is
wat he likes then well that's him!
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Question Asker Thanks : ) - 6 months ago
 
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