My boyfriend wants oral, and I want to give it to him. Its just I'm scared and don't know what to do?! Is there a certain way boys like it? Because I don't want to look like an idiot asking!
Don't ever be afraid to ask what he would like. How can you look like an idiot if you are trying to please him.
With that said, I agree with some of the other comments. Keep the teeth out of it. Ouch!
There are a lot of classes that are out there that teach things in this area. Look up your local Tantra teacher for you. Two, go to Burning Man. There are classes at Burning Man by people highly trained from Tantra, to Body Electric, to the Human Awareness Institute (www. Hai. Org) or you can just go to these places directly.
In Colorado there is a sexual educators guild (www. SHAEG. Org) that has lots of practitioners who can teach this too.
1. Just do it. (You wouldn't believe how many girls don't / won't). And EVERY guy I've ever talked to LOVES blow jobs, sometimes MORE than sex.
2. Show enthusiasm, don't be afraid to talk dirty, make eye contact and be aggressive! Guys LOVE to have you take control and just pull their zippers down and go for it. That's SO hot.
3. Gulp. If you're gonna do it, remember to go all the way, this will show your guy that you where big girl panties. Yes, it's nasty, yes we know, but swallow your man's spunk, and he'll do ANYTHING for you. When my wife does this for me, I feel like I am on heroin. And believe me, she's get PLENTY of tongue in return. If she's really good, she gets figure 8's for hours.
Hope this helps. Remember, if sex is fun for both of you, it's not worth doing at all.
The best blowjob I ever had was from this girl (then) she constantly changed things up. She would rub her tounge around the head. Take the entire length. Go halfway down. Squeeze my balls. Take my balls in her mouth. But the one thing that was really good was when she was just teasing with her mouth or using her mouth on my balls she would be constantly stroking it. If you can make eye contact with him while you are doing it. He will probably go nuts. A little spit to keep the lube up is not a bad thing either. Good luck let us know how it goes.
Plenty of saliva and enthusiasm always work well. Someone once said there is no such thing as a bad blow job but I'd like to qualify that by saying watch out for the teeth, gentle nibbling can be fun but having your penis scraped raw is not. Play around and watch his reaction to different things you try. Some things you could try apart from the old in and out motion is licking the around the head of his penis like it's an ice cream cone or taking his testicles in your mouth
Keep your teeth away from his head and try to get his penis as deep in your throat as possible without gaging. LoL. Keep your hand a continuation of your mouth. And yes. Plenty of spit =D
*Another good way is letting him "titty f*uck" you with your mouth open so that you can suck on the head as he thrusts. Just keep your teeth away and don't let him get too aggressive! LoL
When I did it for the first time, I didn't even know what I was doing. I mean, I had an idea, but not for sure. Just remember to suck on the head and grasp and move your hand up and down their shaft, and do anything creative. Sometimes they like it when you tickle their balls (some don't like it. Watch out:P)
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