I have been texting with this guy for a quite a while now and our texts have become quite sexual. We both enjoy the buzz it gives us. Today he asked me if he could ask me a personal question. I said yes and he asked me if I do or ever have masturbated. I'm not sure what to say. What do guys think of girls who masturbate?
Just by asking I'm sure he enjoys it when women do. I know I do A Lot. There is just something very hot about knowing that she does and having the opportunity to watch. It's just something else to share and enjoy with your partner. I would prefer a woman who does, but have been with women who haven't but really enjoy when I do it for them. I think it does help a woman discover what she does and doesn't like and can pass that knowledge down to her partner.
As far as being more sexually open from my experience it's been about 50/50 Those who don't like it have been just as sexually open and aware as those who haven't and vise versa. It's just a matter whether a woman enjoys that aspect or not.
Be honest with him. If you do enjoy it I'm sure he'll like it and if you don't I don't think he's gonna change much just because you don't.
Yes. No contest, guys like it when girls masturbate, and even the knowledge that they do is a turn on. Be honest, and if you already aren't I'd suggest trying it.
I personally think that its not a problem at all. You know if he is asking then he probably does as well. Its a part of human nature almost. I would be straight forward with the guy and tell him what's up. It might even add more "buzz" to the late night texting. =D
There is absolutely nothing wrong with a female masturbating. I had an ex who liked being watched while she pleasured herself and I've got to say; my self control was pushed to its limits. It's a turn on from my prospective.
i think that it's pretty hot, I don't know why girls are so closed up about it. The bus ride home from our football game was pretty much solely masturbation stories. just knowing that a girl masturbates changes the why I see them in a good why.
Personally, I think that girls who masturbate are more open and receptive to being intimate and don't have any issue being themselves and telling me what they do and don't like in the bedroom. For me, its a HUGE turn on and it's thrilling either watching or helping or listening. I hope its a turn on for him, good luck.
1. she doesn't think sex is 'filthy or disgusting', something to be reviled except for procreating 2. she's uninhibited. 3. she knows what she likes sexually and probably has an easier time achieving orgasm, thus creating better sex 4. can help lead a guy to being a better lover with her because she knows just what buttons need to be pushed to get off.
that's not to say a girl who doesn't masturbate is a prude or stuck up or not sexual.. its just more often the case.
and visually, men like me love watching a girl pleasure herself. hope this helps.
There is no standard answer to this question. But my guess is that, if your chats have become sexual ... then your truthful answer is the one to give!
You may even find that he finds it a turn on ... as I don't think he would have asked otherwise! But be prepared to hear the truth whether HE does or not and what you may feel about that answer - because that's where the conversation will lead!
Personally, I think it's great. It says to me that they're more sexual in general, which means that they would be more likely to be able to express love in a way that is meaningful to me. Also, they are more likely to know how to get themselves off, and can therefore give me better instructions. Basically, if a girl said that she didn't, I'd think she was either asexual or lying, neither of which are good.
You know I have to agree with the guys my boyfriend just got me started on it and now that I'm in another state for the winter we kinda made saturday our special day where when we get a free half hour we will masturbate together using picture and video messages. on saturdays we will usually do it 2 or 3 times aday. and some times during the week if we can't sleep we will meet up again. he seems to think its hot and I never used to do it till just recently but it has helped our relationship a lot especially being more then 6 hours away. give it a shot you may enjoy and its also really healthy for you. it helps with your heart and actually prolongs life.
I know this is a guy question but I couldn't resist! Girl, be comfortable in your body. The question you need to ask yourself is DO YOU LIKE IT! Try it. You might like it! You might love it! If you don't, done. haha.
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