Eng_Lad

Why would my girlfriend be too afraid to orgasm?
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Eng_Lad (Age:18 to 24)     When: Over a year ago
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I've been with her for about 2 years and we were virgins and she was oblivious to all things sexual before we got together. We get close, and she gets hot and quite close to climax but when she's nearly there she moves and says no stop and moves over, kisses me and doesn't want anything more. She's never done it before and she could be worried or scared but surely she must realize it feels good and would want to keep going?
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versusxiii
Over a year ago
I agree with Dela1111. Also, there are people in the world who have a fear of pleasure. Forget what the phobia is called but there's a small chance of that. In addition, the idea of a new feeling she's never felt may be a little frightening, which sounds weird but happens.

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    Over a year ago
    I did forget to mention one very important one, can't believe I didn't think of it before. She could have been abused. Some women experience orgasms when they're abused and it's very confusing for them so maybe she gets scared just as it happens because it makes her think about the abuse.

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    Dela1111
    Over a year ago
    I think she is just afraid to be that vulnerable in front of anybody. Maybe you should talk to her about this and when she's ready you can go past where she usually makes you stop.

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