I'm 18, and my boyfriend, is not asking me for sex. I'm a virgin, and we have been dating for seven months. I want to sleep with him, but I worry about regret. I'm too young to get married, but I want to touch him. Maybe I should wait till he loves me?
If he doesn't love you after seven months, it's doubtful that he will. Chances are he should love you now.
He's your boyfriend. He's the one to do it with. And if he hasn't asked, maybe it's because he's waiting for you to say something about it. So, you can bring it up, and see if the two of you can do something about it.
It seems like he's respecting that you're a virgin or is too afraid to approach you about it. So you should lead. You can touch him in places when you guys are making out. Direct his hand to places where you are comfortable in being touched (breasts or down south). Take his shirt and pants off. And I'm pretty sure he gets the idea once the boxers (or briefs) comes flying off.
You're 18, now is the time to make the mistakes as you get older, the repercussions of your mistakes are less forgiving.
With that being said, start out with all the other fun sexual activities to ease into it. Sex is not a big deal and it a great asset to any relationship. After a few times you will wonder "why the hell did I wait to do this?"
Okay, so she says the guy doesn't love her and your advice is that she should go ahead and do it since the repercussions are worse as she gets older? Are you insane? - 11 months ago
Answerer
"i want to sleep with him." Just do it for the experience and the sake of hedonism. If your 24 and still a virgin, your choices are reduced later on. That is what i'm saying. Does he love her? Who cares? You guys are attracted to each other then do it. - 11 months ago
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UltraDramatic
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
If you're not sure he loves you, why are you even considering? If you think you might regret having sex now, chances are you probably will.
thorfin7
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
If you think its right then do it. Maybe he's too shy or uncomfortable with the situation. If he's saving himself for marriage then that'll make it more difficult. But if he's not then make the first move and figure things out together.
I'll be 21 in Oct. I haven't done anything passed kissing a guy and sleeping next to him. I don't think I'm too old not to be having sex. Wait until you're a ready. Only you will know when you are. I'm in no rush. The way I look at it. I've waited this long, and I'm not going to just do it. Because I don't want to think, 'I waited all this time to just do it? '. You're never too old, dear. =]
If you have waited this long I don't think waiting a little while longer will kill you. if you have thought about it, and you are ready then you should do it, but don't do it just because you feel pressure to. you will regret it in the long run. don't ever regret anything especially the first person you have sex with. you said you want to touch him too....so explore other things besides intercourse.
Maybe he thinks you don't want to have sex with him...what I would do is the next time your making out with him. give him a hand job that always gets the guy knowing you want to go further. by the way I waited till I was 18 to have sex and it was worth it.
I was twenty years old, and engaged when I lost my virginity. It is good to wait, because sex is a very complicated ting. it can change so much of a relationship. Wait to know if he loves you--not just with words either--actions always tell the tale much louder. Do what is RIGHT for you, as you alone will have to live with the consequences.
Girl seriously I was just in your shoes. Best advice, don't do it. You can only give that to ONE guy and it's gone. I was just in a relationship with this guy for 8 months. He is 3 yrs older than me and we were both virgins. We had sex and it complicated everything. We aren't together anymore and I gave him something that I can never get back and that was very precious to me. Heed the warning girl.
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