Sugar Daddy

A few things here:

About your mom. .. With the advice she gave, it's better than her telling you to find a poor guy. At least she isn't telling you to find an unambitious loser.

About a sugar daddy, as long as you know it's a temporary arrangement and that you can't expect him to develop feelings for you, then you might consider it, as long as you understand that he most likely wants to go to bed with you. But keep your guard up, because you never know what can happen.

As for me, there's a fine line. I don't want to be a "sugar daddy" in its traditional sense, but I've always wanted that one special woman in my life who I can love and take care of so she doesn't have to work. Whether we're married or not isn't the issue. As long as she's the special woman in my life who I think is the one, then I'd love to take care of her as long as that's what she wants.

Your step mom was joking or desperate!

You could get Mange too from your dog.
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Get another dog, rather than to become an escort.

i think this an incredibly unethical thing to do. You and worse yet your step mom are terrible people. This is classy prostitution. If you want to get somewhere in life...go work for it you lazy cow! Don't mooch off someone whos already made it themselves.
"A woman whos seeks the company of men for her own pleasure is an empowered woman."
A woman whos seeks the comapny of men to pay the bills...is a whore" There's a fine line there that you are considering crossing.

The only thing I can say is, if you get into this, be aware of the fact that there are probably women lining up around the block for a combination of good looks and lots of money, and if he gets bored with you, he could easily replace you. You'd kind of have to treat it as a job, because you'll be getting paid for it. Apparently 3500 monthly dollars and a free car. I have to say, if presented with a hot, rich, tolerable woman that was going to PAY ME to do her...*shakes head* jesus...

Your a typical female, you are just getting a better price for it than most do. Your doing exactly what 80% of all females do, it is just that you are openly admitting it.

Selling p**** for money is hardly a novel idea. Go for it; if you are willing to consider it, then doing it won't present any moral dilemmas for you, and I doubt it will do any damage to your reputation either.

I would do it. Honestly why not. It's a tradition so old and practiced world wide. And it's not even about sex, Geisha's weren't used for sex just entertainment and companionship for men. It's true what everyone else is saying that he could find someone else and you'd be out but duh eventually that would happen lol. So do it! I was just thinking to myself that I needed a sugar daddy after my boyfriend broke up with me last week haha. By the way bless you for saving that poor dog! I am an animal person, maybe this is karma repaying you.

well I think its your life so do what you want but if your asking opinions then here is what i have to say... first off if you both know what the other is giving and taking then there is no problem but if you do decide to date another man seriously they might not be into you having a sugar daddy. And if this man finds a woman he wants to be serious with she probably won't like him paying for you even in just a friendly way. I know women that have sugar daddys and the deffinition of a sugar daddy is varied in oppinions but I personally see nothing wrong with it under certain circumstances, such as yours. hope this helped!

where did you get this man ? ahha let me know
you are totally right! go for it

thats sad.. You're mother just meant well, but in all reality, it does seem like she was a little despite.. USING some innocent man to take care of you.. That's messed up what would you do after you got what you wanted? leave him? What would you do if you wound up having feelings for this guy and your mom hated him? that would cause drama in every direction, what if he found out your intentions? wouldn't you feel bad for breaking their heart? Would you have sex with them? If so, you'd be considdered a prostitute. I'm not trying to be mean what so ever, but coming from a MOTHER (myself) this is a very bad idea honey. I hope you have a good heart and make the wise choice. Keep in mind if you trust the Lord he will provide for you, and not only that.. but KARMA comes around X's 3. God bless

i don't understand you...i really don't...why do you want to destroy your happiness?do you really think that money and cars will make you happy?you re so wrong...you re acting like a complete prostitute and you re admitting it sincerely...you should be ashamed...i really pity girls like you...i never cared about money and titles and this kind of stuff...were did pride go nowadays?you re completely selling your self...you haven't much difference from whores...where did your self respect go?

Honestly I would probably go with the sugar daddy. I'm considering getting one myself but I don't know how to go about it? Can you give me some tips, where did you meet yours? Personally I couldn't do it with a really gross guy, I would have to like him and the money would just be icing on the cake, not the entire foundation.

How is an arrangement between 2 adults wrong? You're getting what you want and he's getting what he wants. It would be wrong if you were pretending to have feelings so you could get his money, but older men with money are not stupid, they know why young women are dating them. If he is tricking off like that then he's not some victim getting used.

Girl go for it, you're only young and hot once. I say it's better than dating the average 18-24 year old guy that just wants to play around and not take you seriously. Just save your money and don't squander it all away. He has the power in the relationship and he can leave you at any time so don't become dependent on his income. Just enjoy it but stay in school while you are being taken care of so you'll have something to fall back on if the relationship ends.

please go listen to the Beatles tune "Can't Buy Me Love" immediately! but then again, it seems that may be wasted on you.

Everyone has their own standard of what does or doesn't work for them. Me personally? I could never just sell my time/body to someone. If I liked the guy a lot in a real relationship sense then it wouldn't be a big deal. But it sounds as if it's just about the money. I'd waitress my ass off or something to put myself back in school. That's just me though. If this doesn't bother you to do and both parties are aware of the circumstances, go for it.

Don't have sex with him.