There are so many 15,16 year olds and an occasional 14 year old on here asking Questions about sex.It's one thing if it's for educational purposes,such as about STDs or STIs or Contraception or they never had "the talk" and want to know about safe sex,but it's another thing when you have teens on here who are bragging about how many partners they've had,or asking if they could have an STD,or how to have sex/oral sex and they are clearly ignorant(meaning not knowing) of sex,and safe sex.What do you think of that?Why so many teens on here trying to be adults,when clearly,asking How to have sex,or if they could have an STD is a sign of not being mature enough?
well, a lot of teens get misinformation about sex, whether from the media, or their friends or other sources. this is a good place to ask questions without being made fun of or called a slut or something. I think its an awesome thing to be able to ask real people without being judged. sex is a scary thing when you are a teen, but its also a naive assumption that most of us are going to stay abstinent just because we don't know what the hell we are doing. I know you are probably just ranting but still, don't hate. peace.
Because, at least in the US, a teen usually can't go to an adult--not even a sympathetic, trustworthy adult--ask a straight question about sex, and get a straight answer.
And that's really f*cked up, and dangerous, and unnecessary.
and you're gonna give me a thumbs down and all that bs but you know I'm right. waiting for sex IS a relatively new concept, kids right, a religious concept, but religion has pretty much been abandoned anyway(by people who think). the real answer is THERE IS NO RIGHT TIME TO START HAVING SEX, unless you believe otherwise, then that only applies to YOU. no one else. sex is not limited to adults. its the most natural thing in the world, that's why people have loved to f*** for centuries
bottom line kids are gonna have sex A) cause its natural and B) cause its awesome! the idea that sex is for adults is a relatively new concept, just ask the peeps back in the old days when 12 year old girls were having children in (in most cases arranged) marriage. some cultures still practice this and its accepted. sexual maturity is reached aty a young age, hence kids wanting sex at a young age. so even if they are "kids," safe sex is great sex. just better use a latex. if you don't want the "i think I'm late" text.
Honey the reality is that teens are having sex. I don't care if you like it or not, but they are. Teens aren't "trying to be adults". In high school, kids go out with each other. They don't want to just make out for 10 years. They want to move to the next level eventually and they want to be good at sex just like anyone else who is in a relationship. I don't agree with 14-year-olds having sex either, but I think at 16 a lot of teens are in relationships and its unrealistic to expect them to go out for howeverlong they are going out for without ever having sex.
To answer your question your question there are "so many ignorant teenagers on here asking Q's About Sex", because the current "fad" in sex ed is abstinence which rarely takes into account that some kids are going to have sex regardless. So you have bunches of teens who are going to be having sex no matter what we do, but they have no idea exactly what is it involves. If we don't teach teens anything and then don't answer their questions because asking questions indicates they are too young for any of this, then either our species is going to die out or we are going to have a lot of unsafe sex. Pretty much all of them are on here asking questions because that is why this site is here, a place to ask questions without worrying if people know who you or not and without worrying about people you know judging you.
I agree with rainbows. and would you rather them not use protection evangelina? sounds like someone hasn't had d*** in as long time. f***ing would do you good, try it out - 2 months ago
I'm a virgin actually and I'm not ashamed about it.I'll be the first to tell you yes sex is natural and supposed to be fun,but a child having sex.Yea,that's a good idea.And if they end up pregnant that's even better right?Cause kids are totally responsible right? - 2 months ago
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Well, lots of the people who come here and ask stupid questions are apparently uneducated and this is the only place where they can find out what's safe and what isn't safe? Can we just try not to get mad at them, even if their questions seem stupid to us? - 2 months ago
Rainbows is right. this is the point of this website. - 2 months ago
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Well, it's not purely for teens, but I do think it was designed with teenagers in mind, if only because they call it "girlsaskguys.com" and not "womenaskmen.com". Also there are way more teenagers here than there are people of other age groups, if only because most people get this stuff by the time they're an adult and don't really feel the need to ask strangers on the internet about their personal problems. - A month ago
I agree.Instead of trying to be kids,which is what they are,they try to act like adults and some of them think "well I was on birth control and used condoms" does that means you're an adult?Nope.Still living with mommy and daddy
Ok I'm gonna rationalize. not surprising you're a virgin, so stop speaking like you understand sex when you can't possibly, and you have the nerve to tell people how they should live. I don't care if these kids do live with mom and dad, lot of these 17 year olds are more mature than you in their thinking, never mind sexual maturity. I understood sex perfectly when I was young, and so did the girls I had sex with. no ties, just sex. sure some won't use protection but most teens are good about that - 2 months ago
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You use a great defense.I guess you should use your speeches for the teenage mothers.And I understand sex more than half of the teens on here.I understand safe sex,i'm not ignorant about sex at all,if I have a Q,I hit Google.You obviously do not understand that there is more to sex than mere pleasure and it shows through your answer.What are they supposed to do if they end up pregnant?Jump around in joy and say "well,sex is great and all and this pregnancy is just fantastic" - 2 months ago
Well I understand what ur saying but that's their choice if they end up pregnant life goes on right? and there are A LOT of dumb questions on here and they're probably going to be a lot more and we can't control that...that's the point of the website to ask question and get answers...teens are going to keep having sex and there are going to be some that do get pregnant you think they're going to stop just because you posted this question?! I rather they ask here than someone with no sense at all - 2 months ago
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Mstoya,i agree with you,better to find out through reliable sources through some idiots,cause as a teen,i will tel you,some of the advice my friends give to other friends who are sexually active is ridiculous,like one girl said when you first have sex you break you pelvis.*cough cough*idiot anyways I didn't post this Q,i was just answering.But it's stupid to have sex then ask Qs later - 2 months ago
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