For some reason, really dirty language during sex is a major turn on for me.
I get turned on with the idea of being called a 'whore' or having my hair pulled on, stuff like that. Thing is, how do I bring this up to my guy without compromising how he views me? I don't want him to feel like he can disrespect me in this relationship or to view me as a 'slut'. So basically, how do I initiate the dirty talk/acts without giving a bad impression or scaring him off?
Mlle. , You won't scare most experienced men off, I promise you. Most men enjoy a woman who is confident, and a little more sexually aggressive than you may realize. I know just from talking with my friends in the evening over whiskey and such, that's a lady's most desirable characteristic: to be a lady in public, and "not to mince words" in the bedroom.
I guarantee you that if you open yourself up to a man who truly loves and enjoys you, he will not DARE disrespect you. Just one piece of advice, remember that a Lady's greatest asset is to hold back until the last moment; don't sell the farm at auction, Missy, if you know what I mean.
Foreplay. before you start having sex tell him something a little dirty or ask him a dirty question with a smile and a flirtatious face while inviting him to do something then if he plays along then keep it going until you are having sex and continue it if he does not follow he won't think much of it
Guys want a girl who knows what she wants in bed and is willing to give them what they want in bed. You can be cute and loveable outside of the bedroom and still be able to get down while your in it. Don't be too shy, tell him "pull my hair", moan as much as you feel like it. Tell him to talk dirty to you, spank you or whatever it is that you want at that moment. Guys love that sort of thing
As always I got into another interesting debate with my girlfriends.Girls: what do you think about dirty talk? Comments?Guys: Do you talk...
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