Sex has gotten too long and it wears me out.

"Is there anything I can do to make longer sex more pleasurable for me and less exhausting?"

Yes: Stop it.

Let him know that, despite enjoying the occasional marathon, you're really a quickie kind of girl, so he'll have to adjust a little. He'll accommodate once you bring it to his attention.

I kinda figured sooner or later you'd say something like this. LOL, it's just your energy had to diminish sooner or later. Your best bet is to simply tell him. There's no rule book that says great sex has to be a "chore". There's dozens of techniques that men use to last longer. From popping pills to exercises and even changing of positions. Also naturally men last longer over time when sex becomes routine. But anyhow the best option here is to talk to your guy. Maybe he's doing something to last longer, and you don't know this. I'm quite sure most duration of erections can be controlled. So the best answer I can muster is to simply talk to him and find common ground on what you both want.

I think he's talking some pills or something to make him last longer in bed. There are so many products in the market, that you can go to 7 11 and buy some. Maybe he is just doing it for your pleasure and doesn't know you get irritated. Sometimes when I have sex with someone and they don't look how I pictured her nude, I won't be able to finish unless I think of someone more attractive. The best thing to do in my opinion is to talk to him.

I think you might take control and give him a ride, that would straighten out your chemistry.

WOW. Lasting too long?

more foreplay and tease him first before you two actually get started. its amazing how close I can come to orgasm just by foreplay and teasing, don't actually get him off before you two start and maybe he can try to make you come via oral once before you two go at it. Hope this helps, I hate to hear that you are finding sex to be a chore, because its soooo fun and cute.

What do you have to say about foreplay; that worked for me; or you can tell him some guys are quick to nut butt usually they hold back to impress and give the girl more pleasure; like me I prefer long sex so I am very un happy if my guy nuts in less than 20 minutes to an hour; oh and I like more that one round. LOL. But you let him know and he just may be getting a break from trying to impress you so hard.

I know what you mean. I usually make my partner go slow for about 5-10 minutes once I get tired and that really helps me get my energy back. Have you talked to him about this are you sure he is not trying to hold out so he can please you that happened with one guy I dated and once we talked he was relived he did not have to go so long.

I really know how you feel lol. Try to experiment with what you're doing and find what makes him come quicker. Also if you make him come once before you have sex then he'll be quicker the second time. Build the anticipation by using your hands or mouth until he's about to burst and then ride him on home haha. It's probably not a great feeling for him either. Guys want to reach the climax and come otherwise it just hurts them. Talk to each other and see how you could deal with it. You might come up with some great ideas!