I have been asked by girls how many different partners I have had. When I tell them I always Lie. They tell me and they typically lie, when guys tell other guys they typically lie, so lets be truthful. I have been in the ARMY, College, and lived in Southern Florida after. The Army put my numbers on the board for sure then college house parties added about ~25 and Southern Florida has been very nice. So with names listed or in some cases just a blurred memory I have a count of 93 partners.
Now ask yourself this why do you lie about the amount of women you have slept with? Is it really that hard for you to admit that you've had 93 sexual partners? In perfect honesty I don't think what I think matters here. Like many people below said I hope you've been tested!
93 does sound very high for your age. But personally I don't think it matters as long as you are careful and don't act irresponsibly.
I don't believe in sharing the number on demand. If you are comfortable telling someone your number, and if they are comfortable with knowing, it'll come out.
I'm not sure even in that situation if I'd share the real number or not though. I read an interesting thought in a blog recently (see link) she said that as far as anyone else is concerned that the number resets at zero every time tests come back clean. I personally respect that idea alot, cause really I am only worried about diseases so anything before a clean test doesn't matter to me, past is past.
Ok listen it doesn't matter how many partners girls or guys have once they have respect for them self and are always safe and don't broadcast how many people they have slept with! I have only slept with 3 and me being a girl if I slept with more than 10 or something id get called a slut you guys have to realize that you wouldn't get to sleep with all these girls you sleep with if we were to listen to your remarks about us being sluts and this that and the other!
You know what sucks about this?. If a girl just said that number she would be a slut. College is understandable everyone is going to party and hook up. I mean Florida has a lot of beautiful women but that doesn't mean you need to get with all of them lol. Army guys are definitely a turn on for most girls but I wouldn't use that as an excuse to get laid. Maybe I just don't understand how a number this high is even reachable at your age. Out of respect for yourself get tested.
Yeah that seems like quite a high number. Truly I've only ever had one guy ask me how many other men I had slept with, and he was very jealous so I refused to tell him. Instead I told him that it didn't matter that I was with him now. He guessed and guessed until he really just pissed me off. I'm sure if I had told him I had been with a large number of other guys ( like your 93 partners) he would have been sick on the spot. But as you guessed it there is a huge double standard when it comes to things like this. What would you think if you were dating a person who admitted to having sex with 100 different partners, would it bother you? What would you think of them as a person? Would that knowledge make you think differently about them, and how seriously you wanted to get involved with them. I have never asked a guy how many women he has slept with, mainly because I don't want to know and I don't want to tell. Girls are expected to have way smaller numbers then guys right? , so ask yourself this, who are these women who all the guys are screwing.
I applaud your honesty as not many people like to really admit what the real numbers are after you get past about 20 or so. As for you not telling the truth about your numbers, well most people could not handle the truth now could they, so I don't blame you there. But I would caution you to be safe and stay healthy, and yes get tested on a regular basis, every few months or so. One last question for you as I have not see anyone else ask you this. What was it that you were looking for, when you were sleeping with all these random people, was it something other then just sex?
Well 93 definately seems way to high. So I wouldn't give them the real number. Girls lie about the number because they don't want to seem like a slut. When a girl asks you, just say you are definately experienced, don't give a number if you don't want to lie.
There isn't a particular amount that is wrong or right. All you can do is just try not to "broadcast" it in your area, and always try to be safe. It's all okay.
This is a social dogma that will never go away. If a man says he's had over 100 partners, either he is lying or looked upon as a stud. In contrast, if a woman had the same numbers, he's a downright hoe and slut. Double standards I say.
Truthfully and thankfully, society cannot put a set number of acceptable amount of partners to give a reason to judge correctly. I once met a woman who claimed she had over 500 men. She was quite a hottie but wouldn't give me the pleasure(bitch). But I actually looked at her with surprising respect. Why? Because loneliness sucks gutter slime and some people just hate being alone whether it's with one or many.
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