guys why do some of you roll over and sleep after sex and some of you, my current boyfriend included,kiss cuddle stroke etc after sex,this is the first time in a relationship where a man does this and I found it a bit odd for a while,and even if we don't have sex he will cuddle up to me at night and hold my hand while we fall asleep which I am not used to at all is there a particular reason why guys do this do some of you do it with one partner but not another, have to say I love it now and if I ever was with someone else I would expect the same...
Its has to do with their sub conscious if he feels close to you he will talk with you if he doesn't feel close he won't but this is psychology so nothing is set in stone.
Lets say "the workout" & the release at the end is so intense that it just makes me tired & I just want to sleep. I will cuddle but I'm sure that it's only a matter of minutes before I fall asleep. Probably why I have never really had much pillow talk.
Some say that the release of a chemical in the brain also contributes to this wanting to sleep.
Ah well I knew that side of it its more the emotional thing my ex wouldn't come near me after sex or even before going o sleep as he said I made him sweat too much? where as my current man always cuddles up to me before we sleep..maybe its just a personal thing..or maybe its a way for us girls to tell which guy is really into us and which one isnt.... - 5 months ago
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Very good observation! I agree with you, it's probably a great way of telling that a guy is really into you. There are exceptions to every rule. Here in Arizona some nights (even with the air conditioning on) it is too hot to cuddle very long so holding a hand or even both our heads on one pillow for a while has to do. How about by you in the U.K.? - 5 months ago
Question Asker
Lol I live in scotland..we need the extra body heat tho we have had some warm weather in the summer and we still cuddled up together just without covers(and clothes).. - 5 months ago
Answerer
That makes it even more fun!
Sorry, your profile shows that you live in the United Kingdom, no offense I did not know you were in Scotland. - 5 months ago
Question Asker
Have only just moved there forgot to change my profile lol not offended at all..... - 5 months ago
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