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When I'm dancing with a girl at a bar, how does she feel about an erection?

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calypsofury (Age:18 to 24)     When: 7 months ago
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My theory is:
Yes, she likes it, just not right away. If you've been dancing for a while, and its getting fairly sexual, a boner is expected. A full boner too, as you can't restrict it to half-mast lest you give the idea its a small package. Is this accurate?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
I take it as a compliment. Knowing that I can turn a guy on just by dancing with him, I like it. But that's just me. I know some of my girlfriends don't like it, but I love it!
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Ok if your kissing this girl and pretty full on and stuff in a club then id say she wouldn't mind too much but if she's just dancing with you and having a laugh with you like me and my friends do on a night out we would be like eww were just dancing and having a bit of a laugh its not like were kissing even so it depends if yous were kissing or not or just having a good time dancing
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idkwhatodo (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
If it was my boyfriend-I'd love it....but if it was someone I didn't like I would not like it at all....but if I had any feelings for him-I'd probably take it as a complement
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juice (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
This has so happened to me a couple times but sometimes if you focus on having fun its not that hard to control but when this happens to me I start dancing a little to the side so she starts grinding on my thigh and not on my dick which is fairly effective but I try for that not to happen as much because most of the time I dance with strangers.
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
Yes. If she's at a bar or nightclub, and if she has been around the scene enough, surely she knows to expect an erection from the guy. In fact, if she doesn't detect one, she might think something is wrong.
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coltdiddy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Excellent question. I go to clubs fairly often and when I do I am always at the dance floor acting the fool. I've always wanted to know the answer to this also because I've been dancing with this girl before and she was grinding her ass all over my dick and with the blood rushing around with the booze and the notion that a hot girl is flirting with you, well that's the recipe for a full-on-hard-on.

As far as I go, I just go with it. I might say something like "wow you're such a good dancer that I have to use my 3rd leg to keep up". I mean, if the girl gets mad or whatever then it just means she obviously doesn't understand the process of how men get horny, or, she believes she is of a higher social class that she is above such a natural reaction and expects you to hide your arousal like she does, in which case you should probably run away as far as you can from her.

I agree with you though, if contact is to made with the genitals while dancing from any part of the girl, arousal is a natural response and if women have a problem with that, then they need to stop taking dance lessons from rap videos.
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
I'll let some ladies answer this. But I did read somewhere that most girls do NOT appreciate it when they are dancing with a guy. But I think it referred to at a club when a girl was on the dance floor with diff guys dancing and grinding. If you are dancing with one girl that you know well and stuff, it might be diff. But girls don't like dancing with random guys with their boners sticking into them.
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