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Am I unattractive naked? I want to be sexy for him.

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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I am a 5''5, 115 pound women. I am not exactly fat, I am actually pretty thin. Only thing is, all my weight goes straight to my hips, thighs and butt. I am an A32 in bra size, and a size 3-5 in pants. My upper frame is so thin and tiny, and once you hit my waist,... well, its all downhill from there =[. I have been so self conscious about this for such a long time. Mostly my love-handles bother me. My "love handles" aren't exactly fat, though, it just seems to be really big bone that sticks out. Everyone thinks I am so thin, but naked, I really HATE myself. I really love my boyfriend and I have started running and working out so that I could hopefully change how I look naked. Please GUYS write me back and tell me what you think... :(


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girlygirl2
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girlygirl2      When: 5 months ago
Girl there is nothing wrong with your body! 5'5 and 115 pounds is thin I am 5'3 and 115. You are thinner then me. Breast are beautiful in ever size. So don't worry. Guys like big boobs but hate fake boobs, so they prefer real over fake don't change. I have hips and butt lets say my body shape is like Kim Kardashian's. Some people say I have a nice body some people say I'm fat. I really don't care what they think as long as I'm happy that's all that matters. Except yourself you are beautiful! Never change for anyone but yourself.
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idiot_for_a_day
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idiot_for_a_day      When: 5 months ago
Wow. You sound hot to me! I prefer small breasts ! seriously !
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imin34
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imin34      When: 5 months ago
you sound like my ex. I loved her body. a lot of guys like the big love handles and big butt. its hot every dude is different just gotta find one that loves you how you are. don't stress over it. seriously I am sure your sexy.
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l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste      When: 5 months ago
If he wants to get naked with you, he's okay with you, so don't worry about it.
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dave216
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dave216      When: 5 months ago
Well lets start with what you told us. 5' 5" is taller than I typically gravitate toward, but I think it is probably good to most males. 115 pounds, that does not sound heavy, but 115 pounds of fat can look a lot different that 115 pounds of muscle so it is hard to say what you look like. 32A, is too me an ideal boob size, but probly most men would say they like bigger. 3-5 in your pants? I have no clue what that means. Women's clothing sizes are an unfathomable numerical system that very few males have any understanding of. They have been explained to me before, but it did not stick with me as there is no logic too it. It seems one must just remember it rather than understand it.
I would guess from what you wrote that you have a disproportionately big butt. Some guys like big butts and some don't. We don't all like the same thing so regardless what you look like some group of guys will find you to be ideal.
I would suggest you strive to be healthy and wait for a guy that is not so superficial as to ignore your more important aspects such as intelligence, caring, abilities, etc. Long run relationships based on physical characteristics are doomed to failure as time is very hard on the female form. You would be better advised to seek men who like who you are instead of what you look like.
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Anonymous User      When: 5 months ago
u sound perfect... if he doesn't appreciate a woman with hips then f*** him
ur beautiful don't forget that
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here4you
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here4you      When: 5 months ago
i think you sound awesome!
im sure your boyfriend like you for who you are and not some VS model
but most guys like small boobs and any type of ass
trust me he will be happy to even be with a girl like you
but why do you hate your body so much?
you sound amazing to me tho
im sure ur boyfriend thinks so too =)
good luck!
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FRANK
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FRANK      When: 5 months ago
Your problem is low self esteem. As being sexy is mostly about attitude, low self esteem is a huge obstacle, not only to being sexy but to doing anything well.
From what you say, it would seem that outwardly you are an attractive, healthy young woman. Nobody's body is beyond criticism! To be sexy, you have to like and enjoy your body as it is!
Working out is a good idea, everyone should do it, and it will help you to feel better as long as you don't expect too much. Be realistic: the classic female curvy shape actually comes from having fat around the hips, bum and thighs!
Concentrate on your good points eg. the fact that your weight is healthy, but not just the physical things. Being an attractive person is always much more than physical!
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nikral
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nikral      When: 5 months ago
trust me you have no problem at all. if he loves you for who you are who cares what you look like naked. as long as you feel comfortable in your own skin then your fine. but if you feel you have to work out jsut to look good from him then your wrong because you shouldn't have to do that, but if your working out for yourself because YOU WANT to work out a bit then that's fine.

when girls think they have to work out and change things about them self just for there boyfriends that really annoys me. there's no reason why a girl should have to work out and change there looks for someone who loves them for who they are. if they have stayed with you this long then why would you think there just gonna turn away and leave you just because you look the same as (or close to) when they meet you? no guy who really loves you for you would do that, only ignorant guys who care about looks and them self would think anything negative about the girl there with when she's naked, any half decent guy would appreciate the beauty of the female body and NOT expect you to change it for them.
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jerseyse410
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jerseyse410      When: 5 months ago
you sound just fine to me

my girl is 5'5 and though I don't know how many pounds, she is a size 8-9 and I love it, she has a heavier chest though.
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AcEMasTeR
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AcEMasTeR      When: 5 months ago
you sound fine to me

don't worry!
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JohnE
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JohnE      When: 5 months ago
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. You don't gotta be so self conscious you sound like your a normal gal to me.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 5 months ago
Your not fat and there's nothing wrong with you! 5'5" and 115lbs is nothing...Im 5'4" and I weigh 112. Your normal, there may be a few things you think are wrong with your body or could need improvement but most guys never notice and think it's silly when we get self conscious. My guy says it must be a girl thing to think your fat because I always worry about my weight and he always tells me I'm fine just the way I am. I barely weigh anything to him, I wear a size 3, and I'm 32C.

I think the best thing you can do is work out to tone up those musces. I do pilates a couple times a week and that keeps me in good shape. I wouldn't lose any more weight though...being too thin is even less attractive. Low self esteem can affect things, you may be super sexy to the guy your with but when you have low self esteem you don't act as sexy as you could. Don't be afraid to show him those curves and be more open, sexy isn't always about how you look, it's more a state of mind.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 5 months ago
I wish I had bigger hips.. I have little hips.. I have a 32 A and 00 pants.. So my shoulders are just a tad broader than my hips and it looks retarded.. I'd rather have big hips? Wanna trade a little?
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