Last night, we were just fooling around and we had anal sex and then he stuck his penis close to the opening of my vagina. I had my eyes closed because I thought it was his finger because he was kissing me (but he's never touched me with his fingers so I don't know what I was thinking), but as soon as I saw that it was his penis I turned around because he hadn't allowed me to get any type of birth control because he didn't want to risk getting me pregnant-WHICH MAKES NO SENSE!
But he claimed to have control over the situation-ha! But anyhow I had my last period a week ago-so it will be a while until I find out if I'm pregnant. But he didn't cum until about 23 minutes after that-although I had done a lot of sucking and deep throating before we had anal sex
So the over asked question is: what are the chances that I'm pregnant-high-or-low. Give me the truth I can handle it and thank you
But for those of you who are interested in having butt sex, what I did was I didn't eat two days before we did it, I just drank a lot of water milk, orange juice and took vitamins. That way when he stuck himself in me there would be nothing that came out that didn't go in with him, and it didn't hurt me at all-but for a while it felt like I was riding a horse-but I was standing up-I think it would be better laying down.
I've got a couple of things to say. First, I admire your dedication to taking one in the ass. Second, I am confused as hell, about the birth control thing for one, which makes no sense, you're right; but also - he never touched you with his fingers? Really? Why the hell not? Third, you gotta get that pregnancy test regardless just to be sure. It's probably a low chance, but you really, really, should get a pregnancy test so you have as much time as possible to come to a decision, if you are pregnant.
Thank you. Yeah the whole thing with protection sort of pisses me off. We had gone to giant eagle the day before and we picked up lube and I also picked up a female condom, he got so upset, he said, "why would we need that for having butt sex? " And I said, "so that I could feel safe and protected. " And he then sat on the floor and held his head(I was so confused) and he said, "I don't want to do anything that could get you pregnant. " And I said, "Anything could risk that. " - 5 months ago
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(sorry it wouldn't let me continue) by anything I mean he wanted to cuddle naked etc. So Friday he decided that we wouldn't do anything that would risk me getting pregnant. And anyhow, the next day came and I was giving him a bj and he said, "let's go take a shower" I said, "what about everything you said? " He said, "I have control. " And I said, "you can cum without realizing it. " And while we were in the shower and kiss, butt sex and etc, he put his penis on my vagina and I seriously - 5 months ago
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Thought it was his finger, because he had never done that before. But when I looked down in was his dick and I got scared.There's no way I want to get pregnant now. He told me that if I got pregnant I wasn't allowed to have an abortion, but man alive if I'm pregnant I'm getting an abortion, no child should have to live a terrible life just because two kids were messing around in the shower and didn't even have normal sex. I'd a pregnant virgin lol. So yeah sorry for blahing. But I'm scared - 5 months ago
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Just goes to show you that once you get sufficiently horny, you lose total brain function.
Make the dude wear a condom regardless, since you can still get all sorts of crazy STDs from raw anal sex. Sounds like he's pretty uninformed on the matter, or he just doesn't want anything to do with the word condom.
Get the pregnancy test, and don't trust anything a man says about self-control, make him wear a condom. Did I say condom? - 5 months ago
Well if he came inside you then chances are high but if he didn't chances are low now there is such thing as pre ejaculation with is little amounts of sperm come out before the releases the whole thing so there is always a possibility ohh and don't trust a guy if he says the has "control over the situation" that's not good
Well I'm not positive on your chances on getting pregnant, it all becomes dependent on whether you were ovulating. If your deeply concerned that you might become pregnant I would suggest getting the mourning after pill like the person below said. You have up to 72 hours to take it and can call 1-800-230-PLAN if you have more questions on where to get it and such. GOOD LUCK
Chances are low in this situation. Not quite the right time for you to get pregnant easily. Precum can have sperm in it but its trace amounts and it is rare to actually get pregnant from that alone.
Personally I wouldn't trust a guy whose whole response to a pregnancy worry is 'I got it under control' That is an immature response and he deserves to smacked upside the head.
I'd personally recommend going to your obgyn or local planned parenthood and getting on something. I personally love the Depo shot cause I only have to worry about getting it once every 3 months.
Depo Provera is a hormone shot that a women can get every 3 months to prevent pregnancy. - 5 months ago
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Ill be honest and people might disagree but there low more than they are high! Just take a morning after pill to put your mind at ease! Lol I done it butt sex too lol. I think its better than sex weird I know!
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