Is sex that serious?

lol well you need to accept that he has d***ed other vaginas and has eaten others too. but you just gotta tell him you ain't ready and he needs to get that part. if he don't get that, he ain't a good guy and ain't worth your time. some guys sex is serious, others it aint. but that don't matter. if you ain't ready, don't settle to make him happy.

listen to your peers. they are probably right. If you are considering to have sex with him. Use Protection. If he doesn't have condoms supply your own. If he is pressuring you then he must not have respect for you (of your decision). Sex is one of those things you got to want to, the best thing he could've done was just ask you one time in that moment.

gus like sex. it's not that complicated for us, Women are trained to be more cautious. If it feels to early for you then don't do it, but suggesting you don't want to do it because of how many women you think he's had? Use protection if you're that concerned, but be honest about the reason if you're going to say no.

Simple, don't do it unless your comfortable with it, which you obviously aren't otherwise you wouldn't be asking for our opinions!

I know it isn't quite this simple but unless you can say to yourself that you want to do it 100% then you shouldn't be commiting yourself to it.

Also I would suggest that if you don't know about your boyfriends past then you probably aren't close enough to him to be having sex, espicially if it'll be your first time.

Talk to him about it in more depth, ask him questions about his past if that will make you feel more comfortable, if he's a decent guy he should respect you and be honest with you.

WOW. don't be a gullible DA you just started getting to know this guy over the net , he may not even be who he claims he is & it sounds like all he wants is sex from you ...here's a case of one of those perverted asses :S
If you want it though at least meet the guy in reality first , & of course he is gonna tell you that TO GET IN OUR PANTS!?

The past is the past.Get him tested for STDs and make sure he is clean.Quite frankly,how many girls he's been with sexually isn't necessarily your business.Another thing,if you're a virgin,save it for someone you've known for longer and love.Reason being?You're a virgin assuming you won't have any feelings for him afterwards,but guess what.You're a virgin and you have no idea what the emotional consequences of sex are for you

Ok 2 weeks is a very short amount of time to be with someone and sex is a huge commitment and step in a relationship and something that needs to be thought about and you have to know you are ready before you do it. Sounds to me like the guy is pushing you into it and that he is only going out with you because he wants to have sex and he thinks that you will put out that way. Sounds to me actually like you should dump this guy the way he is acting if you want me to tell you the truth. He should wait until you are ready and not be pressuring you into anything at all. Look here's the way I see it last night I told my boyfriend that I was really to have sex and I'm a virgin and he told me that he was not gonna sleep with me because a few days before that I said I was not ready yet and most guys would have jumped at the chance but he doesn't pressure me into anything and says that he wants to take things slow because he likes me and doesn't wanna mess anything up. I just thought that story would help lol

no no no.. don't do it. Sex is really all he wants from you. If that's what he talks about he really doesn't like you for you he just wants you for sex. Trust me.. when a guy really likes you he will respect that your not ready. He won't keep 'begging' you or talking to you about it.

To 'certain' guys it is. But, mainly when all they want is sex. He's just trying to pressure you. And it's working. What he wants is if you really like the guy you'll lower your standards and have sex with him even if your NOT ready. And if that doesn't work then he'll try and sweet talk you and tell you that you are so special to him or he's not like other guys who only want sex and that he really does care for you. Its ALL Bull S***! Take it from somebody who knows. Hope this helps...Just please don't do anything till your ready. You DONT want to regret your first time. Its really special.

Don't have sex with him if you're not ready. Any guy that pressures a girl when she's not ready is just being selfish.