Me and my boyfriend aren't having sex yet, but I've got an arsenal of accessories (handcuffs, dice, blindfolds) I'm about to bring out. you don't HAVE to have sex to have fun, I think, but he's hesitant because he thinks sex should come before all the extra stuff does. am I the only one who likes fun and games just with oral???
As long as the arsenal consists only of handcuffs and blindfolds --- I am drawing a blank on the dice --- then I don't see what the issue is. They are relatively harmless accessories when it comes to foreplay so more power to you and your imagination but I'd definitely try to keep the toys to a minimum... Nothing takes the fun out of sex or foreplay as a battalion of toys laid out to be used.
These crazy accessories require a lot of trust, especially if you're not someone who's usually in to that sort of thing. I don't want some girl tying me up who doesn't trust me enough to let me have sex with her. I'd want to be further in to it than that before I let her render me completely helpless.
You are certainly NOT the only one. LOL. But sounds like you are bringing out the toys a bit earlier than most -- and that will scare off some guys. Personally, I like to wait until I know my partner pretty well -- including his major likes and dislikes -- before we get into the "extra stuff". But we definitely do get there, sooner or later -- sounds like you just get there sooner. :)) Good luck!
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