So my new boyfriend and I got to talking and he has done anal before, and I never really had to much of an interest in it until he asked what I wanted to try. The way he talked about it had me kind intrigued, so I told him I wanted to try it. Now we are going to try anal and I'm just a little nervous that it will hurt. He said that it would only hurt if we didn't use lube...And he plans on being very gentle and easy. He seems to know what he's talking about but I don't know what I'm suppose to do. Does anal hurt? What do I do? What should he be doing? What position would be most relaxing?
Make sure you go to the bathroom and clean house very well before-hand. The best way to relax your bottom is actually the opposite of what seems logical. If you push out like you do when your going to the bathroom it opens you up and makes it more pleasurable.
It can hurt, but it doesn't have to. Usually it doesn't if you use lots of lube, relax, and - this is most important - he is slow and patient and stops whatever he's doing if you say it hurts.
If you're not easily embarrassed (or you know a good, discreet sex shop) it might be worthwhile to read a book written by a sex therapist.
Your first anal experience would be positive if you had plenty of lube, and you both were laying on your side. This way you have plenty of lubrication (please use a condom as well for hygiene purposes), and you can press back against him to control then entry. Do your best to be as relaxed as possible. If you have a vibrator it might be a good idea to have it on your clit while your having him enter you and once you have an orgasm from your vibrator you will be very relaxed and comfortable for him to enter you or while is is entering you. At which point you can probably try double penetration as well. Good luck and do not be fearful
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